Age differance opinions???

[Dolphin05]

So here I am 1 day late for af, which has me very worried. I have been under a lot of stress this last month, so I'm hoping that's why. Plus df and I have not been active much this month because of the stress. My daughter is now 6 months and I had a very complicated c-section with her. Due to getting a staff infection my last surgery on my c-section was 2/15/12. My question is do any of you ladies have babies with about a 14 month age differance? If so how and why do you like it? Or how and why do you not like it? My boys are 3yrs 2 months apart and I love that differance. Where my younger son and daughter are 4 yrs 8 months apart and I think that's a bit much. I'm just really scared because I know we're not ready for another.

[Dolphin05]

I'm not as worried about the age differance as I am a pregnancy. Not saying I am pregnant cuz I have not tested yet. I have had a total of 4 additional surgeries on my c-section because of the infection I had. My last on February 15 they reopen it all down to the stomach muscle and cut out all infected tissue.

[parkersmommy]

My best friend had her 2 12 months apart. She is fine with it. I think she's crazy mine are 3 years 7 months apart lol.

[Kdc1984]

I have two girls...7 and 8...they are 11 months apart. I'm not going to lie it was hard in the beginning...it still is at times. But they have a very good bond between them! They dont go any where or do anything with out one another! I wouldn't recommend to any one to have kids that close , but I would take it back for nothing!

[mrssandefur]

I have a two year old, a 1 year old and another due in three weeks. They are 13 months and 15 months apart. I love it :) my two.year old KNOWS that's HIS bubbu/baby and he always has. They can play together and don't.have.to.worry about, well this one is gonna wanna do this but this one.isn't big enough. My older boys are very close and I'm.praying this one will be just as.close to.them!

[Dolphin05]

I know the only way to know for sure is to test but I'm scared to. I'm also scared to go through with the pregnancy, if I am, because of the complications I had. Any opinions welcome?!?

[T_soon_2B_mom_of_5]

While mine are not 14 months apart my oldest 2 now 9 and 7 are 20 months apart it was a little difficult when they were babies but now that their older and when they were toddlers its been great they are so close and look out for each other, even when they were younger and didn't have playmates yet they had each other to play with