Welcome to Medhelp and the Living with an Addict Community. I'm so glad you reached out and hopefully you will find the answers you need here. If you ever feel like talking , please feel free to message me. I've also dealt with my spouse having addictions, and have done what i suggested you do with your husband. He's been clean and sober for 17 years, other than the one relapse, where i told him that he had no choice but to go into a 3 month Relapse Prevention Program. He did, and we've been happy ever since. No problems with relapse. You're in my thoughts and prayers.