Hi!! How are You?? We haven't heard from You in a while & I'm wondering How are You??
Forgiveness&Anger This is where I don't see eye to eye with most on this forum I happen to think Anger and Unforgiveness are HEALTHY emotions when someone has caused us GREAT Harm Anguish Grief It's NEVER alright what they did BOTH of them & You only need to "forgive" and lose the anger if You intend to live on with Your cheating spouse (& is thisREALLY "forgiveness" or is it"acceptance"of whatHe/She has done to us?) It's EASIER to be accepting than it is to move on BUT it's not TRUE forgiveness if one is selective in "forgiving" the spouse who betrayed You but not the other person That being said I am truly sorry for Your Loss - the Heartache Anguish Pain Betrayal ,etc.etc. Regards, TinkerBell
just wondering how things are going and hope everythings going better!! write anytime!
oh ok. it's just that i feel like the lack of sleep and anxiety seem to be making me feel like i'm having pains or am i just imagining these?
well the pain in my **** was real but it subsided after two days. then there was that muscle and bone pain and well everytime i feel anxious it appears to get worse. probably because i got so scared about my sex encounter and frustrated knowing that tests for std's usually are still like 3 months away. although most people from these sites told me that the risk was zero.
can we chat at yahoo ? needed someone to chat with to calm me down. if that's okay.
thanks for answering...
by the way does anxiety create these pains for me as well?
the same article but a few add-ons. please tell me how it looks to you.
but i'm also considering the fact that i always sleep at 1 or 2 or 3 a.m in the morning so i get quite a lack of sleep can that be a stronger reason for my muscle and bone pains? i slept at 2 a.m yesterday and woke at 6:30 in the morning, can that be a reason too?
thank you got a facebook? it'd be nice to have a friend in here.
it's been 12 days since i had unprotected oral and protected anal with a guy.\ (i'm a bisexual). in any case i observed that there's a tiny bump at the right side of the of my neck at the back, the very right side. i'm just askin if this is a lymph node? is it a symptom of some STD? or is just some skin infection. i've checked all the areas at the back part of the neck and it's the only tiny bump i saw. and there not red. they do not have ulcerations. it's basically just a bump. i hear that lymph nodes are located at either sides of the neck but is it at the right back part of the neck? and do they swell one at a time? the bump doesn't hurt too..
yeah i am sexually active. but there was no std that said that the pain would run across the my willy. experts said it was due to rough masturbation.in any case i have another question for you kindly answer this. it's in the next note.
please comment already. do you think my problem is trauma from masturbatioN?>
Thank you for the suggesions my age is 21 how many times can i masturbate in a week
Thanks for commenting on my post about my poor sexual performance.
I'm 34yo my wife is 26yo. Do you know if Viagra would help me get it up more than once?
Feel free to e-mail me if you like
Thanks again 'n good luck w/ everything buddy!
It is very hard to heal after such a traumatic event occurred. I love him but still can't wrap it around my finger and understand how he could get so emotionally attached to another woman and how she had the audacity to act like he was her boyfriend when he was never hers to have. I just don't know how he could do it for as long as he did it for. It's still so hurtful and forgiveness is so hard. I hope one day I can be there. As for you and your soon to be ex, yes, at least you gave it your all and now can live with no regrets or to wonder if it could have been saved. Hopefully you will meet a very nice woman and move on with your life. I always wish you the best, you are a good heart.
You're in my thoughts all the time, but especially today. Just wondering how you were doing. Glad to see you are handling things as best you can. Hope things turn around for you.
Just a quick note to say hi! Thanks for the friend add and i hope you're doing well and having a good weekend so far :)
For one I don't think my opinion means that much. I don't hate men, the good one's anyway Ha! Ha! I have a fiance that I've been with for 10 years and I love him very much.We have a five year old son. If he left me I'd be lost.I know for myself, a pity party is not what I would need, encouragement would be.Not that you care, being an evil man and all (joke). But in august my mom passed away, I've been having a really hard time dealing with it until I found this sight and this one WOMAN has been giving me the courage to heal.I have a new outlook on this situation. As far as my response to that girls situation. I think its better to feel angry and empowered then depressed.Thats it..
Just a quick note to say hi! I didn't mean to offend you or anyone else. I just wanted to let her know she can make it on her own even as painful as this feels now! And didn't want her to be a doormat or an "ATM"as she put it, any longer. Wouldn't you agree that its not healthy to subject yourself to that type of treatment whether it be by a man or woman?
Thank you for the advice. It is very much appreciated.
Thank you for for your comments. They are very appreciated.
Just a quick note to say hi! Hi, I can totally understand your situation. My sister has pretty much the same thing going on in her marriage and although I have no real expert advice for you other than you need to do what's best for you. Hang in there. Also there is no real quick fix to all of this so instead of coming up with a temporary solution for a permanent problem take your time and do what feels right for you all. If you ever wanna talk I can listen.
Just a quick note to say hi!
very sorry for mixup
Just a quick note to say hi! Vagina has 2 inch depth which is sensitive.You need minimum 2 inch lenght fo satisfy a woman.
Thank you so much..I got an idea..
Thank you so much.. I go an idea..
Hope you feel better soon!
Just wanted to let you know I can relate. If you ever want to talk, you know where to find me.
Thank you for giving me an answer. You helped me alot!