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Afraid that I have been anally raped ? , please help

Hi , if a straight man got anally raped while been  blackout drunk will he know after waking up next morning , I didn't feel any thing wrong with my body , I heard that if u got raped there will be pain and some blood , there was no lube used I am sure , I know that first time anal sex even without lube can be done without pain if you were relaxed and sexual arousel help the sphincter muscle to relax so I am confused , if u are sleeping or uncounsius your internal sphincter muscle will be tight so in my condition of being blackout is that the case ? Please help me guys if u have knowledge about this or experience , thanks
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3191940 tn?1447268717
A person would know - the pain would be impossible to ignore.
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But some people had anal sex for the first time without pain ,, why u think that will change in blackout anal rape coundtion ?
973741 tn?1342342773
Some people, I guess, may experience pleasure with the pain but pretty much, that area is tender and anal sex would likely hurt before and after. And the essence of rape isn't that it is gentle and loving.  Think about it.  You'd know.
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Yeah it will not be gentle and I didn't found lube , the last thing is about the sphincter muscle being relaxed or not , they say it will be tight to prevent bassing things while u sleep or uncounsius
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Can you give a bit more info about why you think you were raped? Aside the drunk blackout, was there anything off when you woke up, to make you believe this?
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Just my clothes were a bit down
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Can any one explain to me . I am still worried
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20876878 tn?1558326022
1. Who the hell was you with when you got drunk?
2. Was you at home when you woke up?
3. Why do you think you was raped?
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