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Am I depress?
Because sometimes I want to suicide?
Sometimes I wish that I can't wake up tomorrow or die immediately.
Because I feel useless.My mom always blame for having a lot of bills.She always pushes me to work but I don't want to work.Because I still wanna focus on my study.Sometimes I get insecure to those teenager who can do all the things that they want and their parents supports them.Unlike me,I am a product of a broken family.My mom doesn't care about my feelings as long as their is money.My mom keep on telling us that she will leave us soon because we're a useless children.Sometimes my mom want to sell me.So that she will have money.Why is that I have a life like this??Pls help me guys..
Sometimes I wish that I can't wake up tomorrow or die immediately.
Because I feel useless.My mom always blame for having a lot of bills.She always pushes me to work but I don't want to work.Because I still wanna focus on my study.Sometimes I get insecure to those teenager who can do all the things that they want and their parents supports them.Unlike me,I am a product of a broken family.My mom doesn't care about my feelings as long as their is money.My mom keep on telling us that she will leave us soon because we're a useless children.Sometimes my mom want to sell me.So that she will have money.Why is that I have a life like this??Pls help me guys..
What about moving out and getting a room in a student house? Is your mom paying for school for you? or are you getting a student loan? You can get a living allowance i think. You need a change. If nothing changes, nothing changes. It will take action on your part. Where there's a will , there's a way!!! It would be good for you to get out on your own and way from Mom.
If you went to school, and got a room in a house with other students, you would be working to help provide for your siblings down the road when they need it the most. It sounds like they are going to need you to leave mom down the road, and the best way you can help them is to go to school so you can get a higher paying job.
How I wish I can work and support my own.If I'll work,my mom will surely use me to have some money.How I wish I can live on my own.
Thank you for the advice.I really appreciate it..
Thank you for the advice.I really appreciate it..
Can you get a loan to go to college or university ? you can get a living allowance within the loan so as to pay for your room and board, and while you may want to work one day a week, you would be able to go to school.
You do need to talk to a therapist though, concerning your own mental health. It helps a great deal to talk about your problem, and i suggest that you make a friend or two here that you can be open with and talk to about all that is happening in your life.
You do need to talk to a therapist though, concerning your own mental health. It helps a great deal to talk about your problem, and i suggest that you make a friend or two here that you can be open with and talk to about all that is happening in your life.
I only have one grandparent left and that is my grandma from my father side.But she's not here cause she's in Canada and even though she's here with me sometimes.She can't take care of me.Because she is so busy.That's why am kinda depress because of my situation.It's like I'm being compress in a place that there is no choice but to keep my mouth silent.I can't work because I'm still minor.I want to help my mom,but in a legal and good ways.Thank you for the advice.
I can't work for now.Because I'm still minor.This coming November I will be turning 18.If I contact some agency about my situation,they might get me and I don't want to leave my little bro and little sis.I can't sleep if I'm away with them.I think I just have to sacrifice.I know someday this sufferings will end.
Thank you for the advice.
Thank you for the advice.
Hi shadow. So very sorry to hear about this. I'm sorry it is so hard right now. I can't imagine worrying about such things as your mother selling you. Is that a true fear that she could or would?
I think you need help sweetie. Do you have any adults in your life that are safe? Grandparents, your father, aunts? Someone you could talk to about this? Anyone at school? Any parents of your closest friends?
Basic needs are food and shelter. I hope those needs are met for you. And if fear of being sold is a real issue, that is a huge safety concern. Do turn to help for these things.
And if you do think of hurting yourself, this is important to do what it takes to help yourself. This involves calling a hotline or a counseling center.
Have hope that things will get better. I so hope they do very soon. peace
I think you need help sweetie. Do you have any adults in your life that are safe? Grandparents, your father, aunts? Someone you could talk to about this? Anyone at school? Any parents of your closest friends?
Basic needs are food and shelter. I hope those needs are met for you. And if fear of being sold is a real issue, that is a huge safety concern. Do turn to help for these things.
And if you do think of hurting yourself, this is important to do what it takes to help yourself. This involves calling a hotline or a counseling center.
Have hope that things will get better. I so hope they do very soon. peace
Are you an adult, or a child?
Your community may have government social services that look out for children in your situation (at least, this is common in Western and European countries). If so, then I think that would be your solution, contact such an agency and request their intervention.
If money needs are pressing, then you may need to work instead of study for the family's survival (food, shelter, clothing etc.), and regardless of what your own wants are just now.
Your community may have government social services that look out for children in your situation (at least, this is common in Western and European countries). If so, then I think that would be your solution, contact such an agency and request their intervention.
If money needs are pressing, then you may need to work instead of study for the family's survival (food, shelter, clothing etc.), and regardless of what your own wants are just now.
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