Hello. I'm not sure this is the appropriate place to post this, but I was wondering if someone had known a male who was sexually assaulted, and how can a spouse support and comfort them while they come to grips with what happened? I can't seem to find any resources for a male rape victim, but I've encouraged my husband to seek help, -and he is getting counseling, but this has really done a number on his head...He is having nightmares, was suicidal, is very depressed, keeps fantasizing about going to this person's office and beating him up...Or shooting him, or stalking him, or some other horror that can result in nothing but bad...This was reported to the police, but the prosecuting attorney won't pursue it because of "lack of evidence"...he feels that nobody gives a rip, and he has little support other than myself or the counselor...Can anyone help? Thanks...~MM