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I'm paranoid my baby was sexually abused :(

Ok, i'm trying my best to stay calm but i'm so afraid my 5 month old daughter was molested today by a close friend. He was holding her while I was getting some things together at my work place and he had enough time to do something even though I kept checking to make sure she was ok. He's a good friend but he's one of those kind of creepy guys that stare off alot. Either way, I just got a weird feeling when I came out of the cooler and didn't see him with her. I checked up front and even outside but when I came back in he came out of the back room and I didn't think anything of it. So about an hour later I came home and changed her diaper and there was a very slight amount of blood on the wipe, only when I wiped in her feminine spot. I automatically got a bad feeling and made sure there wasn't any diaper rash. She hasnt had any in months so I know it's not that. I just feel like he might've touched her and I will probably take her to the dr but I hope they will still be able to tell because I gave her a bath. All I know is it doesn't feel right and there shouldn't have been any blood. I dont know if i'm just dramatically paranoid but her vagina even seemed to look a little different. I hope i'm wrong but I need some kind of advice. She's too young to show any emotional signs or anything but i'm losing my mind wondering. Please help if you can!
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I'm horrified to hear that Bt I would b paranoid too,get her straight to the docs to put ur mind at ease, if he has u can deal with it from there, I sincerely hooe he hasn't touched her Bt docs will defo b able to tell, even if u bathed her or not .all the best.
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16558095 tn?1449101223
Do not hang around him EVER AGAINNNNN
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3060903 tn?1398565123
Ditto what margy has said. I'm so sorry that you are going through this with your little one. Have you told him what you found? Maybe you should be talking to a Child Safety officer as well?
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535822 tn?1443976780
Definatly take her to the doctor and do not let him with her again
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