Is my boyfriend molesting his own daughter?

[kiesha1987]

my boyfriend of 5 months has a 7 years old daughter which he lives with and often i go to spend the weekends with him. somethings when I'm at his house and he goes to tell his daughter good night, i will over head her saying "Daddy no kissing". Today while he and i was in bed 30 minutes after having sex laying in bed naked cover with two blankets and his back is turn to me and I'm facing his back,  his daughter comes in the room and lays in front of him, i quickly wore my under cloths and a shot pant and he covered his privates part with one of the blanket and she covers herself with the other blanket and lays in front of him and covers her head with the blanket, i put one of my arm on his waist and he also covered his head with the blanket his daughter head was cover with but my head was not under the blanket, his daughter started turning and twisting under the blanket so i  lifted up my head to see what's going on and he took is head from under the blanket,  while all that is going on he is slowly pushing his butt in front, my heart skipped its beat and i touch his penis and he was erected, i angrily woke up from the bed and he called my name twice but i didn't answered, then i told him to come outside that i wanted to talk to him but i could see that he was very nervous and when i ask him why did he erect when his daughter was laying in front of him, he got angry and said he want us to brake up.

[Nikma420]

Call DCYF !   I believe there is something going on with my BF and his 3 daughters but they lie to dcyf and nothing happens !!  But... I know something isn't right .  He should not have his daughter !!  My bf acts like a *** hole to me when his oldest daughter is around and she is always doing inappropriate things to get his attention on purpose and when I'm not there he let's his two girls sleep in our bed . I've found small blood stains in my bed on the sheets and I get told I'm crazy .  He opens there bedroom doors and goes to bed and then wakes up to go pee and walks to the bathroom butt naked .  I feel like it's when I'm asleep gone or when they r in the shower something is going on .  

[Melissa_1982]

you have to protect this child !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  there is more then likely something going on & I don't think you could live with yourself if something bad happened to her. I understand it puts u in a tough spot as he is your boyfriend but EVERYONE has a responsibility to keep the children safe, whether they are ours or not.  If you want to talk more feel free to inbox me but PLEASE do the right thing & contact the police now & CPS.

[AnnieBrooke]

I agree with the others.  Tell someone in authority in the Children's Services division where you live, and explain exactly what you have seen and heard, with no further embroidery or opinions inserted.  I know you are mad and grossed out, but think of the poor girl, she needs protection.  Try to keep the emotions at a minimum, but do be clear and persuasive when you make your report.  She deserves it, she is only a kid.

[ChristineMP]

Follow your gut. Your gut is telling you his behavior is inappropriate. Listen to it.

I would definitely report your concerns to Children's Protective Services (or the equivalent agency in your area), tell them EXACTLY what you observed...do not give your opinion, just tell them as objectively as possible what you saw and heard. Let the professionals look into this and make a determination.

As to him being your boyfriend...I would say this one is not a keeper.

[BluCrystal]

How awful!  You have a responsibility to help that child by reporting his behavior to the appropriate authorities.  As for his being your boyfreind, NO.