My husband of only 4 years has a meth addiction. We got in a fight and he disappeared.for 9 days, with no word from him. He came home told me he smoked meth. He asked for help. 3 days later he left for a month. I begged and pleaded with him to come home so I could help hi.. A month later he came home. Slept, and ate. I waited on him hand and foot and was trying to be as understanding as possible. On his 5th day of sobriety, we got into a fight, he was being rude and mean and picking a fight with me. He left. It's been a month and a half since I've seen him. He goes on facebook once in a while to read my pleas to get help, but never responds to me. He just stopped speaking to me. He's never been like that, he's always been such a sweet and loving husband, and person. Now he's so heartless. Can anyone tell me what he stays gone and won't speak to me?