So sorry to hear about what's going on again......have you figured out that you are ready to leave him yet?
I wish I could offer you some words of advice. What I'd really liek to say is that you should just LEAVE his sorry ***, espcially if you do have a place to stay. One of my best friends just moved in with her sister (who just built a new house and is expecting her first child...) but my best friend has 3 girls, ages 8, 6 and 3 and her 3 yo. was just diagnosed with Autism, but she had to leave her husband....he sounds like he's related to yours.
Seriously, sit down with your family, make a plan and look into getting some help from the government. You and your kids do not deserve to be living in a household like that
(((hugs)))
Your husband is not doing his job. You are doing yours as a mother though.
Personal question..........do yall rent or own?
Your situation and never gotten better since you've been here. I going to be up to you. You have wonderful family that can help you w/different things.
Ohio...........I'm sorry, but it looks like you're just going to have to go to work. I truly understand wanting to be home w/your son till he starts school.
I was the same way, and did artwork from my home for a long time. Didn't pay much, but took care of not having a day care bill, not having to burn gas to go to work, etc.
Working from home like that can be tough. I still had to care for my daughter while working, so I ended up working long hours and strange hours to get the work done.
Start looking & save up money for deposits and at least a couple of months rent before you do it.
Hey.........do you cook? Hubby's not buying food, so how does he eat? Cook enough for you and the boys period. That's really cruel, but how can a man depend on the wife's mother to feed him?
just thought id try and finish/update this post since its been days. I just want to say my family is great. They know everythign that is going on...all of them...my mom, aunt, sister,brother, nephews, inlaws, etc. They are trying to help me so much. My younger nephew brought some clothes and shoes for my boys that are from his older step son that he outgrew, and he also works at a chemical plant. he can get free laundry detergent, bleach, fabric softener etc. He just emailed me this morning he got a bunch for me last night! My brother and his wife filled my car tank with gas and gave me some grocery stuff. My mom made a huge care package with foods and then yesterday handed me an "early birthday" card that had 100 bucks inside to go towards groceries and necessities. I am just blown away. They are trying to figure out how I should go about things next---where to go if I can manage to leave here for good. (I could temporarily stay at any of these relatives houses but it wouldnt work out long term as none of them have much extra room at all) but anyhwo, my family is so wonderful, I dont know how I will ever repay them. They also think my husband is bipolar and are kind of fearful he could become dangerous the way he is.
as for things here directly the last few days, we havent been talking because Im still mad about everything, and he's mad about the no sex thing still. Im also mad because he once again bought stupid toy things on ebay with the money i had in paypal from stuff I had just sold!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
anyhow thats my update. My 5 yr old is sick yet again with a cold. He keeps getting germs at school. he hardly ever was sick his whole life until he started school!! this *****!
Dam if that all dont sound familiar....
I'm so sorry, you don't deserve that.
I guess my comment got poofed sorry if I offended anyone I would never mean to do that!! Sorry again. I didn't think it was that bad?????
Hey, I'm friends w/Lorainna Bobbit. Want me to call her?
when ever you need that number I am here
Some men just don't get it ! Grrrrrrrr They treat you like chit then want to have sex. sorry you don't live closer. I would come over and kick the **** outta him.