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So fast off ill start with im just about 2 months clean feel awesome never going back!!! I guess im here just for some input..... I have the most amazing boyfriend ever!! He has stuck by me thru this whole ordeal.... For two months he hasnt really said much hes just always listened to what i had to say while going thru this. But now his questions and trust issues are now coming out. ( my addiction was hidden until i got caught at work and got fired) i cant say i dont blame him. It just scares me of why it took him so long to talk to me about this all. In all honesty like i said i dont blame him for drilling me i think the main issue is that im not working yet. I guess i just need a little advise.!! Thank you... Oh ya have i mentioned that the sober life im living is fantastic !!'
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I know its all expected... Especially for what i put him thru. I knew it was going to come with time. He has told that hes done lots of reading up on addiction cuz he always reminds what the number one thing you believe from an addict.... Nothing! It hurts but its the truth ive asked him numerous times if we will be able to make it past all this and he tells me yes!! Thank god cuz i cant loose him!! Time will heal everything.. Thanks guys
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Congrats on your clean time...that is awesome!  Be patient, he was hit over the head with your addiction, probably can't really understand it.  There is a lot of information out there for living with an addict.  Anger and trust issues are normal feelings.  Be patient.  Keep moving forward!
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Hey congrats on 2 months clean are you going to N/A meetings yet???
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Hi..Good Job so far so keep going..When I first came clean I had some videos all on this Addiction and Addiction and the Pleasure Pathway..My Hub watched them over a few times..It helped us both understand what or why we become addicted as far as it being a Brain disease..This is all about it in a scientific way and how the Brain works. Maybe do some research on all you can about this..It will help him & you to understand more..Please make sure you get some out side Support..It takes work to stay clean.
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Hi congratulations lil on almost 2 months clean. Thats awesome, well done !!!
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