Oh hun. My heart is breaking after reading this! You are so young and have a long life to live! I have a 14 year old daughter so I do understand the pressures that are out there. I know it is hard but is there any way you can talk to your mom? UnsureMS is right that it could have been laced. Weed can effect everyone differently. If you can't find the words to tell your mom then can you write her a letter or have her read your post? I would be disappointed with my daughter but I would be honored that she showed maturity by coming to me. Please keep us updated on how you are doing and please consider telling your mom. I know teenagers don't think adults (old people, lol) will understand but we were all young once too! I wish you the best!
I could of not put this any better then what Amandag said..PLEASE You are on a Addiction site. Mind Altering Substances of any kind will do so much damage up stairs in all those Billions of wiring you got going. I am 57 and started using at 14..PLEASE get out and stay out..DO NOT ruin your Life with Addiction. Thank of your Future and a Career. Live your Dreams with a clear head not a drug-ed up head. Because you will have no dreams..The Survival part of the Brain (midbrain) will take over and the only thing that will matter is where your next drug or drink is coming from. Oh.. this just breaks my Heart!!!! I am begging you to STOP NOW before it is to late..Life just goes bye to fast..Live a good clean life and you will be able to deal with Life much better..Life will not always be peaches and cream, but if you become a addict it comes with its own new problems. Addiction is a Brain Disease..I am sure you would not want Cancer. Well it is a disease so please stay Clean & Sober..I sure will be Praying for YOU!!..DO NOT let your friends put pressure on you..They might thank it is Cool and it is the in thing to do..BUT it is NOT COOL..It is the exact opposite. OMG Please stay away from it all..I wish you the best..Maybe talk to someone about this that can help before you go down the wrong road.
Bless
May the Lord show you the right road.
Hey you. 10 hits from a joint is like having 10 cones from a bong. Surprised you didn't overdose. Yes you can do it again, as long as your willing to say goodbye to your life forever, and never feel normal ever again. Stop while your ahead, you are 14 years old, it will take your life, your soul, your memory, your childhood. Because you had so much weed the first time, you may feel like this for a week or two. Your still a child, your body and brain is still developing, please don't destroy that. It's not cool to drink or smoke. Whatever path you take now will decide your future and happiness and if you keep going down the wrong path, it will destroy you. Please, please stop. Take care cc
can you update us so we know you are ok
Wow, you are so young and seem worried about the wrong things. You shouldn't be worried about when you can smoke again....because smoking and drinking shouldn't be taken so lightly. Smoking weed is additive no matter what anyone says. My husband has been doing it since 13 and he struggles with quiting now. There are many side effects you can have from smoking. My husband struggles with his memory.
Take it from him that smoking weed and drinking should not be the focus of your young life. If you are scared then you need to let your mom know what you did and get checked just in case something more is going on. But just in case you won't take this advice. I have a question for you how well did you know those that you were drinking and smoking with? I ask because the joint could have been laced to intense the feeling. This can be dangerous and can cause a number of side effects.
All the side effects that you may have can last any number of time. Weed effects each person differently and since you are young and it was your first time...it is hard to say how long it will last. I still think that if you are scared get checked out. If its been a while tell your mom and get checked out. Your health and life is more important then if you will be in trouble or not. Your life and health is more important then when you can do it again.
One more thing dont listen to your friends on this either they are young and haven't been through that much. They know the same things you know for they have been around for only as long as you have. Be smart and don't be a follower.
After what you are going through you are thinking about doing it again? WOW.
Hun, you are 14 and you state that you were drunk and smoked weed. You are not headed in a good direction. I have to suggest that you DO tell your mom. Get honest with her and take the help to get yourself off of this destructive path. Have her take you to a doctor to see what is going on. No one could possibly diagnose something like this on the internet. I wish you the best and hope you get the help you need.