Okay, so i'm going to see my boyfriend tomorrow & I really want to sit & have a talk with him about him getting help. For those of you who don't know my situation, just look at my previous posting. I have never actually said to him "please get help". I'm afraid of what his reaction might be (get angry, defensive, slam doors, etc.). He's never put his hands on me. I know he's still using & probably will be when I see him tomorrow. He gets so defensive about any little thing, but I can't go on seeing him without expressing how i'm feeling. Anyone have any advice on how to approach him?
I did make the first step today & called a counseling center to talk to someone. I'm on the waiting list & they said they will call me when there is an opening.
Jennette