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PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I normally would NEVER do this, BUT, I just got a personal message from a friend that I am VERY worried about!! PLEASE respond to let her know that we are here for her and this is NOT a losing battle!! She CAN do this!!! The only reason that I am even writing this is because the message actually has me scared!
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HI,

Please post and tell us what you are feeling. we are all here for you and have all felt the same way at some point. I know this is hard but you have the strength of ALL of us behind you and Confused who is one of the strongest women I know. Hang in there, post, talk to us.

Melissa
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I don't know who we are talking about but I am here for the day and happy to lend any support or anything needed!
Please post and talk to us!
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Thank you so much Melissa. I don't feel very strong right now, she was talking about death and going to sleep and not waking up and I am sitting here balling like a 2 year old and I didn't write her number down and I am SCARED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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She is not responding to my PM now!! I can't say who it is because of the response I just wrote and I could never do that to someone on a personal and confidential level but I am sooooooo very worried!!!!!
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confused...do you know anyone on here who would have her ph#?
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No, I don't. She gave it to me once but I think she said that she had never given it out and I don't know what I was thinking, I could have sworn I wrote it down but now I can't find it!! Errrrrrr!!!!!!!!
She did answer my PM though and so I am waiting for one more response and when I get it, I will know in my heart that she will be OK because I do know this, she would never break a promise......ya, ok, that makes no sense!! Sorry. I will let you know if I hear back from her and please, if you are religious, send a prayer to my good friend PLEASE!!!
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girl I have been praying for her it will be ok....please let us know when you hear from her!
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Thank you Joann!! I think honestly she needs all the help and prayers and thoughts she can get. I am TRULY worried!! I hate not knowing what to do!!! I will let you know though!! Thanks again!!
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I don't know who you are and I don't need to know. My prayers are with you.
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confused...I hate being in a position where you feel like your hands are tied...i am a fixer i always want to fix everything and everyone.... so i know how you feel and now I am worried...and don't even know about who! but it's ok i will keep praying!
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She has not responded and I am so stuck!! She promised me once before when she got low like this that she would not try to take her own life and in her PM, she mentioned things about that. I feel like she is at that point literally and I don't know what to do. I wrote her and asked her to promise that she would not hurt herself or anything close to it and she has NOT responded! What the heck am I suppose to do here!!!!!!! HELP!!!!!!!!!!
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She responded but she won't promise, she said she can't. I NEED TO KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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will she give you her # or will she at least call you on the phone and she doesn't have to give you her #
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Prayer is the best thing to do. You have made contact. she should know we all care and do not want her to do anything irrational.

We all do care and are praying for you. Please know that things do and will get better.
I do understand. If it is deep depression, go see a Dr. Depression is a very real thing. Medications can make things get better.
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I asked and she keeps saying thank you but its ok, BUT I FOUND IT!!!! I saved it on my Microsoft Word File!!!!!! NOW, how the heck do I call out of the United States....LOL
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not a clue on how to call out of the us...can u call the operator and ask her to dial it for you? i don't know if you can do that in 2008!
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i wish i knew what to do to help you help her. i do know she is wanting help. keep her talking, emailing.
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352798 tn?1399298154
Look in you phone book. The is probably instructions on international calling. If not call your phone company and ask.
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Mine and my wifes prayers are there. Try the operator to call out of the country. Good luck and God bless
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you probably need to dial 011 and then the country code or something like that....i should know better....my hubby is an international airline pilot and i have to call out of the country often....i just can't think at the moment though....call an operator....she/he will help you right away!
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Thanks. About keeping her talking, she said she is going to lay down, NOW WHAT??
She has promised to talk before she does "anything", so I am going to keep checking my messages every minute to hear from her, I don't know what else I can do. I feel so helpless.
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kimmieb, I was looking at her number and there are 11 numbers instead of 10, is that normal?
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confused you are doing all you can...you are going above and beyond and that shows what an awesome person you are!!!
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Joann: Thank you very much. It's just, you know how you feel a "special connection" with certain people? That is obviously how I feel with her. She truly is in my heart and I FEEL her pain. It's hard to explain I guess. I just wish I could do something more to help her.
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