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my dealer just called, please i need some positive reinforcement

i just got a call from my dealer...i am 12 days clean. he is offering cheaper, and says he will come to me in the message. i don't want them, but need to be talked out of it to stay strong!!!!
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If i had my dealer calling after I was 12 days clean with cheap drugs and delivery I would be pacing the floor going crazy and would not be able to stay clean. This is an enormous trigger, but you can put an end to it. Block your number like mentioned above, then you don't have to listen to those messages or if he somehow continues to call or find you, tell him you have quit and you will call the cops. That will stop him from calling. Congrats on those 12 days clean, its the tests like this that make us stronger. Your doing great!
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917008 tn?1251223979
Just checking in when this caught my eye ... so does your "pal" front you pills when you're broke? Eight voicemails from this sub-human sewage? Doesn't take a hint, does he?

I'd be inclined to tell him to get ******, but if you're not that direct, just fast forward through his messages, erase, and if he gets through, tell him you're broke, and you had to lend everything you've got to your dying aunt in Salt Lake City.
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271792 tn?1334979657
I have Verizon and I am able to block 10 people of my choice. Yes, call your provider and find out what your options are.

Please know that you can run but you can't hide forever. At some point you will need the tools in order to "stay strong" as you put it.

Just my two cents but I think you need a better plan.
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222369 tn?1274474635
Tell him you're being investigated for prescription fraud and you think your phone's being monitored. You can also call the phone company.
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i turned off my phone and when i turned it back on i had 6 voicemails from him...i can't change my number due to work...how do i block someone...do i call my provider????
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yeah same as dont do it, they will try every thing they can to get ya to score, what so you ill and got no money while they walk around in nice tracksuits drive nice cars all things paid for by the addict, they not your friend if they were they would encourage you to stop not try and temp you, be strong and dont give in that in itself will be another hurdle you jumped through beating this addiction, life is so much better when u are clean, just takes time but what dont kill us makes us stronger an all that, true also you through the worse now using again will take all the hard work you done away, and it would have been pointless alll that pain to have to do it again when ur ready cause jus using once or twice and you be back hookes again haveing to eel like **** when you not got any, keep up the good work, take care
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Dont do it! You have come so far, if you go back now you will start all over again! Its not worth it really its not! Tell him no and to loose your number. It is the most impowering feeling in the world!
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980052 tn?1262967079
That's exactly what you need to do STAY STRONG!! I would also suggest changing your # or block his on your phone! Once he get's in your head it's going to be much more difficult to talk yourself out of it. Do not answer his calls go for a walk and call someone you can talk to that doesn't use!! Of course he's offering you cheaper he misses your money but doesn't care about your misery! Please stay strong 12 days yur almost over the hump do you really want to go back????
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