It started out eight years ago. My first love/hate relationship with a pain pill. It was a Vicodin ES. I was living with my fiance, who lived next to his grandmother. We went over to her house like we did everyday to visit, and he had a pain issue that he was seeking medical attention for. When he'd ran out of his pain medication, his grandmother offered him a white pill ad said to take it. Then, she turned to me and asked me if my ovarian cysts were bothering me, to which I responded yes. That's when she handed me the same white pill from her bottle and I took it, not really knowing what it was. Keep in mind I had no knowledge of what a pain pill was back then. But about 30-45 minutes later, I felt like I was running on high octane. After the pill kicked in, I went back over to where we lived next door and began to clean and continued to do so for the next 4-5 hours. The house was spotless, and I was officially in love.
Then it went from there. Like any other addict, I made it a point to try and seek out a PCP that would help me along in this little love affair. And when I didn't find a PCP that would help me, I would run next door to my fiance's grandmother, letting her know I was in extreme pain - and she'd dispense 5-6 pills to me at a time, telling me to make them last over the next few days. Soon, they only lasted a few hours. But then I found a PCP that was going to help. I told him about my ovarian cysts, and that was it. A short few weeks later, I had tests done, etc. that showed I needed to have my gallbladder taken out. And instead of being scared of surgery like any other normal person would be, I welcomed it. Why? Because everyone knows that with surgery comes pills. And lots of them.
The surgery came and went, and that was the beginning of my bad little habit, otherwise known as my full blown addiction. It ended up where I'd take 10-12 pills a day, fueling my habit. It was a definite love/hate relationship. I loved it when I'd take 2-3 pills at a time, to help me get through the day with cleaning and working - but I'd hate it when I'd run out so far in advance from when I'd be able to go back to the doctor to get my monthly refill. The pills, once they kicked in, were amazing with cigarette smoking so I picked up that habit as well.
In a nutshell, this continued for another few years. I don't think I went an entire day without at least 3 pills in my system. And I thought I was on top of the world. Then my fiance passed away from "normal" medical conditions. This forced me to move back home and continue my addiction there. And I was great at hiding it from the people around me that loved me the most. I think I went to the ER at least 50 times over the course of three years, of not more. My family had no idea about the ER visits either, they just saw me fueled up on pills without knowing I was on them. And instead, they just thought I was taking life day by day in such a positive way. Little did they know, I was only making it worse with these little white pills.
Long story short, I'm now over a year sober. In and out of relationships while on the pills, I'm now happily married to my best friend and soulmate. But because of the addiction I had for so long, I now suffer from severe panic attacks and I'm afraid to take pills all together - even Tylenol or Ibuprofen. I have a fear of death that I'm hoping to get into therapy to take care of sooner than later. I've also been diagnosed with "WHITE COAT SYNDROME" - a fear of going to the doctors. In fact, the last doctor's visit I had, my heart rate was 167 just from having my blood pressure taken. It scares me because I remember a time when I would just take even a half of Vicodin and I would be a little more calm than I am from day to day now. So, I'm here to share my story and to reach out to others, only in hopes that they, in return, will reach out to me and help me stay away from these nasty little pills.
Hi, I'm Alex and I'm an addict.