has anyone with children left an alcoholic? what happened to the kids? I left my husband a year and a half ago and my attorney told me to bring pics and stuff like that, but he ended up getting the kids unsupervised every other weekend. I immediately took him back because i was scared for the safety of my kids. I can guarantee if the smoke alarm went off, he would not wake up. He doesnt take care of them at all, I cant guarantee they would even eat. My two year old who is in a crib, my husband has never gotten him out of the crib, I can see him sitting in the crib the entire weekend. I want to leave again for good, but I fear for my kids to be alone with him. On one hand, I want to protect them and get them away from him, leave him, on the other I want to protect them but that means to stay. this is just a terrible way to live! any suggestions??