i hate reading things like this:(how old r ur kids?this is bad on u and harmful to them...no family that could help?got a nearby domestic violence shelter?have u been in counseling b4?
I hate alcoholism my husband is a drunk and has hit me but he said he didnt hit me but he has he blacks out alot he can be so mean just i cry all the time i dont know what to do we have two kids and he has all the money i feel so lost and traped have no where to go
As corny as it sounds fighting is never good because someone always ends up getting hurt. I do not want to be hurt and i also do not want to hurt anybody else even if they wish to hurt me. Im a pacifist and always walk away or talk my way out of fights and this carries on when im drunk. In fact when im drunk because of the obvious confidence boost it gives you im even better at smart talking my way out of hostilities.
I do not believe alcohol can turn you into a violent thug if your not one already. I regularly go out drinking with friends, most guys, a lot pretty big and loud but all completely harmless when drunk no one i know has ever got into a fight drunk because despite what people say you really are aware of what your doing.
In 90% of cases consuming alcohol is not a 'excuse' or get out of jail free card for being violent and fighting.
I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. No one needs to go through that kind of hell, and I don't intend to put my loved ones through such.
my 4 foot 11 inch mother would become a raging lunatic demonic possessed b$tch when she drank...and she has been an alcoholic since the 70's.....and unrepentant one too....my brother, who died at age 38 last year in July from mixing drugs and booze, he also would become violent. (the last time I saw him alive he tried to kill me with a butcher knife and held a gun to my head....). My husband claims I got very angry and mean.....(thank JEBUS I went through rehab in February.....my mother is alone now....having run ME off years ago...and well....her son is now dead....
i would say alcohol DEFINITELY changes ones personality....been there, seen that.
Normally.. I'm a kind soul.. but "they" tell me I'm different when I drink.. not violent or abusive.. just "different," but no one can seem to explain it to me, exactly.
I was married for 4 years to a childhood sweetheart. He didn't drink all that much at first, but that quickly changed, and so did he. I've been slapped, drug through the house, clothes half torn off, all because I wasn't ready for bed.
My younger brother.. a sweetheart normally, turns into a real ******* after drinking.. a really mean drunk!
Izi is right... this drug is the worst I've ever done in relationship to the affects it has on personalities!
hi. ya, ibi is correct, excessive alcohol consumption, especially with someone who is chemically dependent, can trigger totally uncharacteristic and sometimes violent outbursts in the kindest of souls. i was never very violent drinking, but my personality did shift. frequently there is a jekyll/hyde scenario, and the drunk side of the equation can be unpredictable. take care, gm
Alcohol is a central nervous system depressant......in large quantities it deadens the brain...anethesizes it...but folks who are alcoholic can be in a blackout...walk...drive...talk....seemingly function...but be totally unaware of it...they call it state dependent memory/learning.It can also cause one 2 b violent even if their nature is not being a violent person.Cunning baffling and powerful is this liquid socially acceptable drug!