This is the same concern you brought up recently:
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/Anxiety/Anger-Management/show/1735656#post_7954632
What have you done to address it? I gave you some suggestions, have you tried any of them? Spoken to your doctor or therapist about it?
Nothing changes if nothing changes......that's a great saying, and so very true. It's very hard to get motivated to do something when we're feeling badly, but unless we do, nothing will change. You have to help yourself.
I recommend rereading the thread where many people gave you some great advice, and realize that maybe instead of sitting around hating yourself, and feeling like a failure....grab the bull by the horns and do something about it! It's not easy, and takes work and patience, but you can start making small changes that will have you feeling better about yourself.