Aa
dont know what happened
i am a 20 year old male yesterday night i slept in my room with a friend(male).now i am having a doubt that my friend performed sex(anal or oral) on me without my notice while i was sleeping.is it possible for him to do that?i am worried
You have to try to think logically. What are the REALISTIC chances that your friend would have done something to you and you didn't notice? Close to zero.
Problem with anxiety and irrational thoughts, it is hard to think logically, which is where professional help comes into play.
Problem with anxiety and irrational thoughts, it is hard to think logically, which is where professional help comes into play.
Listen, no one can say 100% for sure you would have woken up, but again, this is an irrational thought, and yes, it is likely that had your friend done anything, it would have made you wake up.
Does this have to do with fear of HIV? If so, there are a lot of people with HIV phobias, and most times, it requires the help of a professional to learn how to cope and get past these intrusive thoughts, just as if you would have an abnormal fear of anything else.
Does this have to do with fear of HIV? If so, there are a lot of people with HIV phobias, and most times, it requires the help of a professional to learn how to cope and get past these intrusive thoughts, just as if you would have an abnormal fear of anything else.
Does your friend give you any indication that he would even do something like this to you? I am curious of what brings out this fear in you. It seems to me that you are obsessing over something that you shouldnt be concerned about (unless there is evidence or the possiblity that this friend would commit such an act).
Unless you are one of the deepest sleepers on Earth, or you were sedated, I would think you would feel any sexual activity, be in anal or oral, while it was happening.
Unless you are one of the deepest sleepers on Earth, or you were sedated, I would think you would feel any sexual activity, be in anal or oral, while it was happening.
are you 100% sure that i would have awakened even if it was oral sex at midnight?please give me as much reassurance as you can
This is an irrational fear. You would have been awakened if your friend performed any type of sexual act on you while sleeping.
If you continue to have these kinds of worries, I would recommend seeking professional help.
If you continue to have these kinds of worries, I would recommend seeking professional help.
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