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hi everyone

last two weeks i got 2 SMS from somebody that i dont know.
the first SMS it said, he/she got HIV and for THOSE people who have sex from 2010-2014 with her/him should take a test, and ask me not to try contact him/her because he/she still want to live without being ashamed.

BUT she/he still sent the second SMS, she/he want to die and ask those people who have sex with her/him or maybe the person who gave him/her HIV to go die with her/him.

NOTE: i'm so scared and i go to the hospital and took blood test and after waiting for 2-4 days the result is               NEGATIVE
          i don't know if she/he sent to the wrong number.
          or maybe she/he looking for person who got her/him infected.
          or maybe she/he crazy.

this SMS make my days so uncomfortable, lost my mood, appetite and feel so lonely.

what do you think about this case guys? should i worried? the result was NEGATIVE.
i feel so scared, so uncomfortable and  anxious ( hope you guys understand what i'm feeling)

thanks and looking forward for the quick answers
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thanks for the reply.

maybe i'm being stupid, and ask so many stupid questions, but its makes my anxiety lower and i can go to sleep which i hadn't do well lately.

i never felt like this before. i never afraid to die before, but after this i feel this life so precious, and what happens to you will effect to your family and other person who loves you and you love.

those what i'm afraid to lose.

anxiety really messing with my head, my brain wont work.

feel so scared, paranoid, phobia, etc.

thank you very much nursegirl, hope i can do what you have done to other people. helping peoples. lowering their anxiety.
this world need more people like you guys.

God bless you and your family for sure.

thanks
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480448 tn?1426948538
Reread my answer:

You never had a risk, so testing is irrelevant, you didn't need it to begin with.


You never had an HIV concern.
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my test was HIV1+2
and the result was negative
6 weeks after protected sex i took test in china hospital.

1.so you think no need to take another test?
2. negative its mean there will be no latency period (symptoms that appears after 10 more year)?

thanks and i looking forward for immediate reply.
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480448 tn?1426948538
You never had a risk, so testing is irrelevant, you didn't need it to begin with.
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can i trust the 6 weeks result, especially in china hospital?
thanks
sorry for my poor english
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thanks nursegirl6572,

i've been waiting for your reply all my life, feel more comfortable now.
thanks nursegirl, you're one of the angel in this world.
can i trust the 6 weeks result?  or this just my anxiety?
is anxiety gonna drive me crazy??
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480448 tn?1426948538
Well, you never HAD a risk from your description, so even IF the test came from someone who is + that you were with, you don't have an HIV concern.  Sexually speaking, only unprotected vaginal or anal sex presents a risk.  

So, you're in the clear.  Block the number and move on with your life.
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now i feel so afraid to go outside.
some of my friends said it just some bullies who want to makes some terror,
but why me?
the second SMS that i received maybe because i reply him/her. maybe other people who received that SMS didn't reply or maybe not even noticed.
unluckily i read those SMS... :(
even my test was NEGATIVE but i dont know my this anxiety still inside my head.
always looking for somebody to talk to and always want to ask alot of questions, even stupid questions.
for ex: can i trust this result? or who is she/he? why she/he send me these SMS? etc

it feels like iam going crazy here.

HELP HELP HELP....!!
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now i feel so afraid to go outside.
some of my friends said it just some bullies who want to makes some terror,
but why me?
the second SMS that i received maybe because i reply him/her. maybe other people who received that SMS didn't reply or maybe not even noticed.
unluckily i read those SMS... :(
even my test was NEGATIVE but i dont know my this anxiety still inside my head.
always looking for somebody to talk to and always want to ask alot of questions, even stupid questions.
for ex: can i trust this result? or who is she/he? why she/he send me these SMS? etc

it feels like iam going crazy here.

HELP HELP HELP....!!
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* sorry
what do you think about this situation?
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thanks for the reply nursegirl,

i always use the condom, oral without condom. my last sex was 2 months ago (with condom), and i took blood test 6 weeks after, the result was NEGATIVE.
it just because the terror SMS, so i feel so scared.
if you have read my situation above, you'll understand.
before i received the SMS my life so good, but after i received the terror sms, i become so afraid and feel so uncomfortable. always think too much about everthing.

what do you think about think, nursegirl?
thanks

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480448 tn?1426948538
Well, it's pretty simple, have you had unprotected vaginal or anal sex with anyone in the past 3 months?  If so, your test is conclusive.  If you've had a risk after that 3 month cut off, then you'll need to test again at the 3 month mark.

I honestly wouldn't give much thought to the text.  
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i don't know, i feel h=i had HIV Phobia.
sometimes i even afraid to make a contact with other peoples.
actually i already get over with it, after i took the blood test, but after received the second terror SMS those feelings comes again.
feel like i have alot of questions to ask. even some stupid questions.

how about your situations there?
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You can also seek some therapy to help you get over this...
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thanks pinkfloyd,

i never feel like this **** before.
i feel so threatened, and feel not safe.
like i need to go to some quite and nice place, hope this feeling wont last long and i can move on with my life.

thanks pinkflyod
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I think that if this person doesen't bother you again...you should rest this and go on with your life.You took the test and you are negative.There is nothing more that you can do.Just go on with your life and if you ever recieve any sms of this short then go to the police yes.
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thanks for the reply.

yes, the more i surfing on internet the more bad feeling i get.
i think in china they can't trace peoples number. i've that thoughts, to call the police.
i don't know why she/he sent me this SMS.
the frist SMS almost make my relationship ended up.
but after the test, and i received the second SMS, it's become nothing for my partner, but i personally had this bad behaviour (always think too much) even if its not possible things.
last time i feel so stressed lost my appetite.
should i change my phone number? or maybe call the police?
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If the test was negative there is nothing to worry about.Even if its real...you are negative.So you can move on from this.Take my advice and don't give it more thought than it should because hiv fear is very comon and very strong.And its very deficult to go through it.I now,I am in that place.You should accept your negative resault and move on know that its easyer.Stay out of the internet and the google.This is only going to make it worse. If you are afraid that this person is crazy and its going to hurt you,maby you could talk to the police.But as far the hiv...the negative resault is all you need to move on with your life.Best of luck :)
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