Hi I am sorry to hear about your loss. I have also turned to fertility drugs as well to help me to conceive. But, my order hasn't got hear yet for me to be able to tell you how effective it does work but, what I am trying is called Fertibella and you can go to www.fertibella.com and get an awesome ttc kit for free, the only thing you have to pay for is shipping. I have read all the reviews and there are many success stories. When I know more i will let you know but if u want any advice or info on fertibella just reply back to me...good luck!