No worries, let me know if you have any questions. I've got a piece I've got to finish on the social side of the issue. Curse the outside world with interfering with my work! :)
Thankyou for your input. It could be stress. She sees the x-tra bowl of food go out and she is right next to the door wantingto go. The last time we left, she actually climbed into the large purse I had on the table. It was cute but very odd at the same time. She likes to pee in the corner when we get home and right in front of us. I will look at the health pages. Sincerely,
Mollyrae
It may not be anger but stress. Remember, it's a cat, not a person. their emotions and thoughts run differently from ours.
Cats don't like changes to their schedule, and your going away would be a stressor. I'm not sure what to suggest; travel is always a problem with cats (which is why some people board them).
As to the reaction to your other cat gonig out... are you SURE that's the cause? There may be something else related to the whole issue that could be causing it. I'm not trying to second guess you, but sometimes other issues are at hand that aren't obvious. I've got a faq in the health pages on environmental stressors an litter box issues that you may want to look through.