total nightmare

[irislita]

so I asked my traumatologist who did the referral for the ns in public...if he can give me another shot befor I go home on xmas.he replied I am made at you???? !!!! what well here we go he is made at me because from the beginning he was sexually interested in me...He literally followed me and stuff like this...I always put it down and knew I need his help...He said I am not his friend anymore and that I will and up in a wheelchair if I have surgery with the ns I found!!!! he made me cry and I am an asehole now because I am not sexually interested in my doctor!!! I am shocke dnad crying!!!! he said u can already chose an electric chair...I would like to report this to the heaD OF HOSPITAL; BUT i AM SO AFRAID THEY WILL HOLD TOGETHER AND GO AGAINST ME:...why do people do stuff like that...why do people like this work in hospital...guys I am freaking out...what did I deserve to get all that ****????

[The_Marine_Corp_Brat]

First off Report him!! This is a dangerous situation for you sweetie! You need to report him not only to the Medical Board in your state and a copy to the Federation of State Medical Boards but he needs to be reported to the administrator of the hospital also! Just because you deleted the text message means nothing! Your cell phone company will have proof in an itemized bill for the time frames he sent these messages and there are ways of getting the information that was in the texts from the phone company you use also! You are probably not the first or the last he has done this to or will do this to if he is not stopped! Obviously no one else has reported or the medical board in your state may be waiting for conformation that he has done this to someone else to take action against him. Either way you have enough going on that the last thing you need to deal with is someone in a trusted position like that treating you this way and acting like that towards you!( His wife also needs to know what is happening as I'm sure she will eventually find out...she and his family probably have no idea and she deserves to know what she is married to so she has the choice to get as far away as possible from him also!)
You can ask that they do not use your information when you report him, they'll want to know who you are but in cases like that they usually try to protect the victim and that's exactly what you are! I am so sorry you are dealing with this right now it's hard I know but you really need to report him and stop him from doing this to someone else!
I will be praying for you as I know it isn't an easy decision to make! Do you have a regular doc that can order the injection until you settle this so you can stop going to him? If not the administrator can help you find one...
You may also want to report him to your insurance company as they have the means to help guide you in who else you may need to report him for his extremely inappropriate behavior!
I will continue to pray! Keep me posted and let me know if I can help!

[BB11]

I am so sorry you have to deal with loser. Please dont just report him to the hospital. The medical board needs to be made aware of this. This guy should not be allowed to practice medicine. I too have had trouble with a stalker and police would do nothing bc I couldnt prove it. You may have a hard time bc you dont have the txts and it might not be worth the aggravation. Chances are this slime ball may be doing this to others as well. The hospital n medical board can investigate if they choose. At least if you report it, its in their hands  Please dont go back to see him again. Its just creepy. Gentle hugs to you.

[irislita]

everything is OMG ´here...I am sooo fed up really.i started visiting this doctor when my bf was 2 months out with the yacht.So in the beginning he ws really nice and like a caring doctor, he gave me the referal to pt...but later bthen I noted he was really interested in me, but bas I wanted the referral for ns i just overlooked this part and went to the consulting...he wanted to me eat with him, mieet him ( he has kids and wife!!!!!!) and i just said no and refused as I knew I just need him for referral...I didnt want my bf to include in that, because he is quite jealous and would have ripped him apart...but I was so sick of doctor searching...but then he started texting me, looking up my number...and I didnt visit him in hospital anymore as the referral was on its way...but yes I do need the pain shoot now...as I didnt response to his invitations and stopped visiting him...he went mad about me...isnt this crazy!!! I do think I will report him.i HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE:::the only thing the hospital will do is give me another doctor and he will be in trouble...anyhow this is stress I dont need now...I was fighting with my inssurance for 2 hours now if they pay my mri and not...I got it authorized...then the hospital told me its impossible...then the insurance again said there is no authorisation...i feel miserable...and have headcahe of all that stress.....uuujuuujuughhhhhh...no fun this runaround

[selmaS]

Iris....OMG I am so sorry this happened....there must be a way to report him if not to the hospital directly try the medical board...

How did ur BF respond to this? I am so sorry I was MIA when this was first posted, know I am here if u still want to talk about this.

  ((hugs))

[Viva001]

Ugh.  Too bad you didn't document his texts.  I hope you bring someone with you if you must see him.
I'll bet he is someone who has a lot of fake charm and has people fooled.

I had a crazy guy obsessed with me a couple years ago--he had a grudge against my garden(!), mowed it & sprayed it with Roundup.  The cops would do nothing, even though he threatened me.  

[irislita]

p.s. i had stalking problems several times...and a guy that out of his obsession tried to rape me...so I dont need another guy like this in my life

[irislita]

i dont know Viva...this guy is totally obsessed with me...he started to text me messages.he was touching my neck, smelling my perfume like a crazy guy and always ask when my bf is away...too sad, but i didnt save the messages.I am too afraid to report him somehow...I know that the whole thing easily turns against you...but I think the hospital should definetly know who this guy is.He is telling me I will end up in a wheelchair...u cannot say that...no way...but doctors abuse their power...

[Viva001]

Whoa, how weird!  Can you report him for inappropriate & unprofessional  behavior?

[irislita]

p.s. I freaked in the end and told him if we are in kindergarden and if something is wrong with him...but please this is no way u treat a person