She is getting to the age where she needs to know what is and is not appropriate behavior according to your family standards. My family is religious so we look down on this type of behavior as degrading but we do allow appropriate learning where we talk to the child and help them them discover truth by means of asking questions. This is a skill we have had to learn and cultivate.
We help one another set worthwhile, age appropriate life goals to become the kind of people we want to be. By focusing on the positive, it seems we've solved many a problem like this without having to address negative attributes, (which we ignore until they just go away). That has worked for all 10 of our well adjusted children who now are grown with families of their own.
lol i'm sorry but that is funny
just tell her it's time to get rid of it, it can't be washed and you need to be able to wash it because of dust mites
then drop the subject
It is normal for a young girl to masterbate. Most girls use their fingers or hand or a small stuffed animal or character. Even a pillow. But it is a private thing and it seems your daughter is keeping it private. She will have to find an alternative way to please herself. But you must talk to her and tell her it is a normal activity but a private activity. And she should not be ashamed of it. Tell her that she if very tender down there and could hurt herself if not careful. Also explain about using something clean. I sense she is going to do it with or with out your approval. Tell her you know it feels good and just basically tell her you understand. Also, no one else is to touch her except a doctor. Just talk in a matter of fact tone of voice.
Well this horse is originally meant to carry a small babydoll so it is not even meant for toddlers.
But she keeps telling me it broke down because she dropped it and not because she rides it.
She is expecting one for christmas and i’m heaving a hard time saying no because i’m kind of uncomfortable about talking about her masturbating with it.
As far as i know she is very clean at her genitals and she using loads of toilet paper so im not sure thats the problem.
I cant think of a clean and harmless alternative because of her age and i am not quite sure what she does with it.
I think the horse your talking about has a age limit and weight limit any way so just say no your not getting another they are for toddlers and she is to big. As far as masterbating most kids do this, maybe she is just not cleaning herself good when she uses the restroom maybe get wipes and suggest she uses them after going to the bathroom