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1611689 tn?1298293660

11year old sleeping with mom and boyfriend

To my concern i have issue's that seem very weird my girlfriend's son which is 11years old always want to sleep with her which in some case is understandable but with her boyfriend to  it creates a wierdfeeling for me and i cant sleep i dont remove my pants when this happens i thought it was a protective phase but it continue's i understand being a momma's boy but she has a 15year old daughter which sleeps in her room and a 1year and 9month baby which is defintely understandable a 2year old til 4years old yeah not an 8year-11year i to had a sigle mom of three me being the oldest was  momma's boy never slept in herbed with the two fact the further more was not allowd by my mom it grosses me out and i asked her if she wants to be single and care for him more he also i believe thinks his mom is his girlfriend and he calls her ***** and all types of disrespectful names and also when she kisses me or anything he kicks her or throw objects at her i belive their defintely is a problem he also snuck up on us and caught us having sex and slammed her door shut and ran not in digust but like i took his girlfriend from him this is weird and last night she said to her daughther and him they need to go to bed the daughter took the baby in the room to give us space but the 11year old stay in bed with us theres no time for anything not just sex and this is their home we must goto the hotel to ave privacy i ove her but this is becoming a major problem and i'm left in despair eveynight she says 50times to go in your room and h has to get in an arguement with her to leave i was thinking of marrying her but now i have secound thoughtsit may get worse if not treated please give me feedback its had speaking about someone's child when therye close to them i tried everything its just like im visited her with him always around and space and i live with her
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535822 tn?1443976780
I just saw this post and put one on the other you posted on ... I agree with you that it isnt a good idea for her son to sleep in the same bed as you both, he is jealous and the situation will escalate ,he needs some help and counseling here and your Gf has to get tough on him Sleeping with family is okay and many families do it usually it stops as the children get older, I dont think it works when the Mom has another partner as all need privacy.You should talk to her ,about the situation she should place consequences on his actions,remove the TV, PC privileges and anything lese he likes ,  and get him some help .
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