My son is a year old. His father never wanted me to have him, & now is barely involved in my sons life. He only sees him when its convenient for him (which is rare) I've never heard him say he loves our son, doesn't even tell anyone about him, & doesn't try to see him on holidays or on his first bday! I feel like if he doesn't make a schedule & see our son more & consistently I should cut him off completely before my son becomes old enough to realize that his dad really doesn't seem to want anything to do with him but my mom says that I shouldn't cut him out of my sons life, that it wouldn't be good mentally. But I think his dad running in and out of his life would be worse.. what do you think and what would you do?