I really truly need some help. I am a foster mother taking care of a two year old who exhibits anger all of the time. My husband and I have had him for several months, but I feel the child does not like me. This child shows jealousy towards my birth daughter and gives me no respect. I know all of the foster care jargon such as: re-attachment/detachment disorder and so on, but he is very defiant Whenever I am alone this child he/she would cry for hours, in addition, long screaming fits. This child appears unhappy and refuses eye contact. In addition, the child will not smile for me. I have to beg..no plead for a positive reaction. Most times he/she walks around with an angry look and only wants to do what he/she wants to do. He kicks, bites, scratches, yells, refuses to play well with others, refuses to learn, refuses to communicate with me, clenches his teeth when asking for things, and will only talk to me when there is something that he/she wants. Do you have any suggestions?