child sexual abuse

[sravanaisha]

Ihave a problem actually,my girl friend has a victim of child sexual abuse and i am the first person who let know about that matter, and i received it as normal,and she told to me about that clearly, like,what the abuser followed and what he did with her,she explained like first he stripped and he inserted a finger to her vagina and after that he asked her to do masturbation and all and finally he inserted his private part into her like wise she explained clearly and its very uneasy to accept that i pity on her she is a child at that time,and my quesiton is she is not even oppose him,he did with her three times in a day all times when ever he called she gone!is children really like to have a sex i have a doubt like this can you please explain it to me cleary,andmy girl friend supported him in all sitution and she is not even worried about that..what actually her feeling on that?is it involventory or else?suggest me please?

[MOM42SF]

There is no such thing as consensual sex with a child.  Children can not consent so an adult who has any sexual relationship with a child it is sexual abuse and they are taking advantage of the childs innocence which is very sad.  She is a victim and likely not the only one.

[AnnieBrooke]

She was a child, and children have no context within which to put sexual abuse.  They do not necessarily get indignant and call the police, either because they have been manipulated by the person abusing them or because they simply don't really understand what went on.  I don't think she did it because she liked having sex.  Something else to consider is that women are trained by society from the time they are young girls to allow males to tell them what to do.  I assume she is not in contact with the abuser any more?  This was probably the best she could do, breaking away from contact.  Where you or I might have yelled and called for legal assistance, perhaps her breaking away was the same thing, for her.