girls arguing

[ellie138]

i have two daughters aged 9 and 11 and they fight and argue over fresh air please could you advise me on a suitable way to restore my house into a happy house again rather than a war zone. have tried reward charts but they seem to old for these now.  many thanks

[margypops]

Who is the instigator of the fights there is usually one who starts the trouble perhaps out of jealousy if she feels the other sibling is getting more attention  from the parent? Seperate them , set bounderies, make sure they have no TV/PC  if they argue and mean it ,be consistant , make sure bad behavior isnt rewarded but good behavior is.Good Luck not easy is it ....