At the very least he requires a systematic program of behavior management. See Lynn Clark's book SOS Help for Parents and follow his instructions (see www.sosprograms.com). Also, his mother should arrange an evaluation with a pediatric menatl health clinician. Finally, soap, spanking, etc. are ill advised. Such tactics tend to cause an already angry child to become even more angry.
Thank you so much for getting back to me we will do anything we have to in order to help him.