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My 9yr old son has been diagnosed with : Schysofrenia, PTSD, ADD, ADHD, Separation Anxiety, possible ODD, and we can see Bipolar, and Multiple Personalities, and I mean 4-5 in fifteen minutes.
I just got full custody after his mother gave up and said in front of him that he's not welcome in her house till he is a good boy again. Told him she doesn't want him anymore and that your dad can deal with you till you straighten up.
He was a total terror for the first Lil bit then started calming down when we out him on meds through a sphyc doctor. Then after about there months his mom wanted to see him and it took 4 sheriff units to get him back.
My wife and I have had the PERT team ( sheriffs ) zout to the house multiple time due to him slamming himself into walls, slamming his head into things, and fits of total rage.
He goes from happy to raging post, then acting like it never happened. He will say things while completely out of control and not remember saying any of it...? " I don't love you, I don't want to live with you, send me back to my mother so she or papa can beat me, I'm not a good kid, I'm the worse kid in the world, I hate you, your not a good parent, you abuse me ( I do spank him and only twice at a time sheriffs said I've done nothing wrong and CPS has told me the same). He's disrespectful, rude, talks back, sometimes throws things, yeld in our faces. I've taken things away, (taken everything away) tried the earningg system, soap in his mouth, restricted to his room, taken big stuff away like school outings, events at school. I can'tseem to find help anywhere for the things he does.
Its tearing my marriage apart and my wife has been through this cause of her parents being pieces of **** too so she is technically mor wuallified to handle it than I am, causing me to miss work for sphyc apts, counsiling meetings, to
stay at home cause it can sometimes and usually takes both of us to handle him, sometimes have to have my mother
step in and help.
Iim lost and have no where to turn and have seriously considered a christian type of schooling/boot camp.
My wife and I have 4 children together and are debating a devorse due to the behavior and worried about her three children getting injured while tryingto control him or wandering if they will think its ok to act like this and start acting out too.
I'm lots and need help or an out of home sphyc care to see what's really going on inside his head.
What are my options or are there numbers I can call to get him help that don't take 3-6 months to be seen??