My daughter is one year old. She cannot crawl, situp good, has no protective reflexes. We got started with physical therapy and good luck with that to me because with my insurance its like pulling teeth to get seen. But now I finally think i got through to the Dr and we are going to see a nuerologist soon and a geneticist. I am scared to death. Even if Eliza has special needs, this obviously doenst change my love but it scares me. I am scared because I have no diagnosis and while it doesnt reflect her character when they label her with one, it may help in understand why there is this delay. Are there any parents experiencing this to help me. She is my angel, my first baby and she is perfect! I keep asking myself what did i do wrong but i know that is not the case. just having a hard time on ehat to do next, how to react and how to deal with all this information.