Some background... Patient is my husband. He is 37 and a severe, life long alcoholic. He started drinking in his early teens and has been a drinker ever since. He has been a “functioning” alcoholic for the vast majority of this time; the only real consequence of his drinking being his failing health( and all that brings with it- job losses, lack of energy, horribleness all around) He has had no legal consequences and he is still able to intermittently hold down employment. This makes his justify his drinking to no end as he doesn’t see himself as meeting the criteria of a “severe” alcoholic.
He was diagnosed with alcoholic cirrhosis approximately two years ago after a couple stints in the ER for severe electrolyte imbalances, jaundice and malnutrition.Upon discharge he resumed drinking and ended up back in the ICU 9 months later- this time for bleeding varices, ascites, severe jaundice, very low clotting factors, alcohol withdrawal, electrolyte imbalances and HE. He was in the hospital ICU for about two weeks and in observation/ascites and electrolyte therapy another week.
He was warned that if he continued drinking he wouldn’t last much longer. His Child’s Pugh class is C and at the time of his discharge his MELD was 17. It’s was double that at admission.
This was about three months ago. He has since been on a daily regimen of Lactulose, Spironolactone, and Furosemide. It doesn’t appear that he is compliant with this regimen. Since he returned to work he has reduced his intake of the medications as he says they are disruptive to his meeting-heavy desk job. He no longer has visible ascites or odema. His Jaundice is pretty visible even with medication. He attended 2 weeks of a 30+ day rehab program after the hospitalization and imho is not complying with the AA requirements of the program.
As of a couple of weeks ago, he has returned to heavy drinking. His drink of choice is neat vodka in water bottles and he puts away no less than 750ml a day when actively drinking. He doesn’t appear to drink daily like he did at his worst;(as evidenced by the shakes) but he is definitely struggling to stay sober.
Given the severity of his illness( He was advised he should get on a transplant list but would need to pursue sobriety first); and the fact that he is still occasionally drinking, how much time does he have? I want to get my affairs in order ( Wills, life insurance, directives etc) because I fear the worst. He is only 37 however; and has beat three ICU stays with pretty severe symptoms and maybe could do this another 30 years (In which case I need to pursue divorce.) I do not want to add to the stress of a possibly dying man by pursuing divorce if I do not need to. But I do not want to continue living and raising kids with a self-destructive alcoholic either.
Is anyone able to determine how long he can continue this way? No doctor has given us an X amount of time estimate and since he goes back and forth between being sober and and being completely drunk, I really can’t decide what outcome is most likely. I hear abstinence can stop (reverse?) alcoholic cirrhosis so I do not know what effect his intermittent sobriety does or does not have.
Any clarification on how cirrhosis does or does not progress with compliance and what benefit if any sobriety provides to those with alcoholic cirrhosis will be helpful. In other words, if he takes his meds and stops drinking, what will likely happen next? On the other hand if he keeps drinking- while taking his medication occasionally; how soon does death become an outcome? Years? Decades?