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I hate my self

My hands and fingers small also my face small I feel shamed about that my face ugly and my eyes small what to do
I am thinking to finish my life
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thanks seroma you are great person but did not live the same life that I lived .I lived my childhood pariah.Nobody loved me because my face and my small eyes. All the time I was angry. People think that I stupid . I am suffering of social phopia. I have no Self-confidence.
I appologize of my weak English
thanks in advance
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There are good people and mean people. You can't change the mean people but you can can choose to ignore them and focus your attention on the good ones! If you want to be inspired by someone that has over come some very real physical challenges pick up some books by Steven Hawkings. A brilliant scientist who has made major contributions in the world of science and is a celebrity author. He also has written books that make understanding science easier by writing for non scientists to understand complex theories of well, everything! :-) just remember everyday above ground is a good day. We all get down and feel sorry for ourselves. You are NOT alone! Forget the haters. In fact, feel sorry for the rude mean people that would have the audacity to make fun of something you had nothing to do with! We can't help the way we are born and Drs are only human and can only do so much! You have to focus your mind on the things you love and and interest you. Put these nasty people on your "pay no mind" list. No attention to them at all! Trust me there are lots and lots of really good people out there too!! Think about them. Killing oneself is the absolute most selfish thing a human being can do. It would crush the people that love you. It would ruin their lives and yours. You have no idea what your life has in store. I had a friend w maybe a similar defect where her right arm and hand were smaller than than the other. She overcame it and when she grew up became a Las Vegas showgirl! She used a Prosthetic arm and hand inside ne of her long opera gloves during her performances. Or what about the surfer girl that lost her limbs in a shark attack and is back at it armless. What ever your mind can concieve it can achieve. When would "now" be a good time to get up, dust yourself off and keep fighting the good fight? We are all in this together! So as Obama said in hs recent speech- are you fired up? Ready to go? Fired up? Ready to go? Fired up? Ready to go? Let's do it!! Best of luck to you.
Seroma
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thanks seroma
But I'm tired of making fun of me . my Eyes very small and close.
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I agree with the above response.  The issues here are beyond any surgical procedure.
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Are you crazy sweetheart? We are not just these shells made of flesh and bone! We are pure energy and life inside of these frail and shortlived things we call our bodies and they are miracles that come in every shape size and color! It doesn't matter! What matters is that u feel your self percieved defects are worth throwing away your precious self over! There are so many people with the same or similar situations as you. There are many others with real problems even way worse.We all have bad days, we all have things we don't like about ourselves. Or real tragedys that happen. Don't let this ruin your life. Try to be nice to yourself and give yourself a break. No one is perfect. That I know for sure. You are loved. Love yourself first so you have love left to gove to others and everything else will fall into place. Remember however bad u feel right now. "This too shall pass."
Seroma
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