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Confused with the date of conception

Please help me resolve this confusion that is in my own mind and bothering me alot. I would like to just enjoy my pregnancy and move on live a happy life with my kids. I had a mulitple partner incident i know it was a mistake and i do regret what i did.

My LMP (as far i can remember) : Jun 21st 2013
Guy 1 incident: Jun 30th 2013
Guy 2nd Incident: July 3rd and July 5th
Found out i was pregnant July 19th.
Ultra Sound done: Aug 08th 2013
Ultra Sound dated me at excatly 6 weeks. The tech was open to my questions and was aware of my issue and concerns. We calculated together plus and mis 3 days and nothing was reaching any where near the Jun30th date or even the Max living capicty of the sperm to July 4th to have me concive in first week of July.
I was still not staisfied with the accuracy of the first Ultra Sound, i had another Ultra Sound done Aug 09th with the same Gestional Age in Six weeks.
Due date given to me was April 3rd 2013 plus minus 3 days.
I can only think of minus the days because there is no way i got pregant after the 2nd week of July that seems unlikly because i ddint have intercourse after the 5th and i found out i was pregnant on the dot July 19th when i expected my period. I noticed my first implantion bleeding to be July 15th.
The calenders, the calculators, nothing goes back to June 30th day of conception for my pregnancy.
I am sure i have answered my own questions and worrying way to much, i have consulted my Dr and Ultra Sound techs and just for more knowledge and feed back would like to rest my mind in peace and have a blessfull pregnancy and forgot my sin and move on and live a happy life with my family.
Please all the knowledgable people out there help me out and help my life be free with this worry.
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from what you said the first guy (june 30) cant be the father due to the above commenter dates she given for conception. sperm live up to 5 days max in the female body ( when I was trying to conceive did research lol) and since you had sex on July 5 and conception is July 7 that second person has a much more chance of being the dad in fact it's impossible the June 30 guy is the one hope this help and you be less stress
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Yes the very last intercourse i had was July 5th and the 19th i found out i was pregnant
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The conception calculator I checked says the following for an April 3 due date.

      Probable date of ovulation:  July 11
      Possible dates of conception:  July 7 to 15

I can't tell from what you wrote if the very last sex you have had was July 5, or if you had sex with someone after that, but I would not suspect anyone from June of being the dad.
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but how does that answer my question
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I understand you...I stress everyday with the same issue...
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