Which guy is the father of my child?

[Deloris89]

I had sex with two different guys close to one month apart. The first guy on June 30 and the other guy on July 27. My last period was on July 13th it was a heavy normal period that lasted for about 5 days. My period is usually regular 25-28 days apart. I found out I was pregnant on August 11th. Im confused about who is the father. My due date was April 19th. I need help with this  i am  scared because I have not told guy number two about what happened with guy number one!

[ppowb]

The due and delivery dates indeed point to Guy #2 on July 27th. That is 14 days after your last period began, the probable ovulation date when your sex drive would have been highest. Finally, the fact that you had a normal full blown period after the June 30th incident eliminates Guy #1 from contention.

[Deloris89]

Thank you

[AnnieBrooke]

For an estimated due date of April 19, the computed conception date is July 27. You can put the estimated due date of April 19 into a conception calculator if you want to check this. That is why I was asking what your reason to worry was. Did you not want the July 27 guy to be the dad?

[Deloris89]

No we are all good here. I’m happy to know that he is the father of my son! I was so worried about it I could not fully enjoy my motherhood

[AnnieBrooke]

Did you get the due date from an ultrasound in the early weeks of the pregnancy? Did you have the baby when expected?

[Deloris89]

Yep at 8 weeks I was given a due date April 19th. I had him when expected. I went in labor On April 18

[Deloris89]

And had him on the 18th

[AnnieBrooke]

It sounds like you don't have anything to worry about, then. Why are you worried? What thing about the dates is bothering you?

[AnnieBrooke]

In fact, if this is really bugging you (and there is no reason it should, but, if you can't shake the worry) have you considered simply fessing up about your mistake, to your primary partner?

[Deloris89]

Are you saying that my son is guy number two’s son? Or guy number one’s son?

[Deloris89]

No I have not decided if i will fess up just yet.

[AnnieBrooke]

Do you think he would forgive you if you did tell him what had happened with the other man? It might be the only way you could get rid of the guilt.

[AnnieBrooke]

Actually, perhaps that is not the best idea, since if you have other children it might ruin their lives if you and their father broke up. Do you have other kids? Your duty to them probably overrides any relief you would get from confession.

[Deloris89]

Right that’s a lot to think about. Do you think that my son is guy number one or guy number two?

[Deloris89]

I just want to know for sure which guy  do you think is the father?