I need help with who’s the dad!??

[Deedee4234]

I’m very confused on who the father is and I’m a first time mom so i don’t know alot about how all this work. I Had sex with Guy 1 all month of november & December and Guy 2 just December 10th (pulled out ,but may have been a little late), I had sex with guy 1 for the rest of the month of december (11-31st).My last menstrual cycle was Nov.14th -Nov.20th, my first due date was August 20th-21st, but when my OB measured my baby January 26th she said I was 7 weeks instead of 10 weeks ,but I never had a period in December so i’m confused. My new due date is September 14th which mean I got pregnant in December. I think it Guy 1 is the father because we had unprotected sex 99%( injecting in me) of the time and my app tells me whoever i had a sexual intercourse with Dec.15th-Dec21st is who the father is because date of conception was Dec21st. I’m just scared and lost ! Its really stressing me out. I just need help and people opinions on what they think. I honestly think my measurement was inaccurate.

[AnnieBrooke]

Hi, Sam, was the period on June 30 a normal-seeming period? Your doctor seems to be saying you were already pregnant then. Was this your first doctor appointment (the one in your 15th week?) or did you have one earlier?

[Sam1995_]

I had Protected sex on June 17 , 2018 .. my LMP was June 30 - July 6 I found out I was pregnant on July 27th the whole month of June & July I had sex with my boyfriend and on June 17th I slipped up and had protected sex with an ex my doctor is saying by measuring the baby it looks as if I’m 15 weeks and 3 days as of September 24 , 2018 & my due date is around March 25, 2019 which is likely to be the father ?

[Deedee4234]

Thank you

[AnnieBrooke]

I can't do anything about your anxiety, but on January 26, whether you were the ten weeks or seven weeks, neither of those indicates the guy on the 10th.  

[AnnieBrooke]

OK, so you thought you were at 10 weeks based only on your period that you had and the one you expected? You can't reliably count forward from a last period to determine when you conceived. This is especially true of someone who has irregular cycles. Just because you thought you were at 10 weeks and were surprised when she said 7 does not mean you were not at 7. An ultrasound is very clear at 7 weeks. (And it does not look a thing like an ultrasound of a baby at 10 weeks. Even a doctor who is known for messups would not confuse the two.)

I would say you got pregnant around the 22nd, not from the guy on the 10th.

[Deedee4234]

Thank you Annie , i’m such a over thinker i’m just worried anout what can go wrong.

[AnnieBrooke]

Hi, could you clarify a couple of things?

You said "When my OB measured my baby January 26th she said I was 7 weeks instead of 10 weeks." How did she measure your baby? Was it an ultrasound?

You said "My last menstrual cycle was Nov.14th -Nov.20th, ...I never had a period in December." When were you expecting your next period? Are your cycles a regular number of days apart from day 1 of one period to day 1 of the next period?

[Deedee4234]

She measured my baby with a ultrasound and said I was exactly 7 weeks, I end up changing my OB because the one I had was known for mess ups. My new OB never remeasured me she just went based off my old OB Measurement. I have irregular periods from time to time when my period can go MIA for months and then come around like a regular period so I was expecting my 7 day period around the same time it came in November.