When?

[Citygirl24]

My baby was born April 5th 2018 when did I get pregnant? Could I let be possible I got pregnant in June?

[AnnieBrooke]

I think whoever this guy is, he is doing a serious number on your head. The only way the baby would not be from the person with whom you had sex all of July, is if the baby was radically premature and you had sex with someone different in August. But if you were told the same due date from the earliest of your ultrasounds, and if the doctor didn't say "Wow, your baby sure came weeks early!" or anything, your due date does point to conception in July.

It is time to go see a lawyer, or to make an appointment at a legal-services clinic. You sound like this guy will not take a DNA test. And he needs to. The two of you and the baby need to go to an official lab and get swabbed. You need to witness the dad doing the swab (so he will not send a buddy in his place) and it needs to be done at a lab certified by the family courts for determining paternity. (Not a drugstore test.) Your lawyer can see that the guy gets summoned by the courts to do this, if necessary. You have this legal right, don't let your head-trip ex confuse you and strip away your rights and the baby's right to have a record of who the dad is.

[Citygirl24]

Yes My Due Date was April 7th 2018 from one dr and April 8th 2018 from another . On September 15th 2017 I was 10 weeks and 6 days by ultrasound . My baby was born VIA c-section so the date was scheduled for April 5th. He was 8 pounds 2 ounces. He was not premature He Was 39 weeks and 4 days.

[Citygirl24]

I have asked him for a Dna test multiple times. I know it cost an arm and a leg to get him tested through court even child support can not find him. He did not sign babies birth certificate because baby looks so much like me and almost nothing like him. But he is in fact the only man I had sex with from June 26th 2017 Until August 1st 2017. I had no more periods after that one end of June early July. I even questioned my drs and she told me it happened mid July but he still makes me think something is wrong

[AnnieBrooke]

If you and the father are still on good terms, a softer way to be persuasive is to call his mom and tell her you'd like a baby picture or two of the guy, to put in a frame with a baby picture of your child. Then when they arrive, line the two photos up. (You need two from roughly the same age.) Often a balky dad will see the resemblance in two photos when he does not see the resemblance so much in looking at a baby in person. My husband's 3-month photo is a twin of my son's 3-month photo, and the resemblance was not as clear in person. I don't recommend this as any kind of substitute for a DNA test, but it can change the heart and mind of a resistant dad.

[AnnieBrooke]

It doesn't cost an arm and a leg to get him summoned to give a DNA sample. Talk to a legal-aid clinic.

Given the state of DNA testing nowadays, it may be possible a close relative of his (his mom or dad, or another child of his if any are of legal age to consent) could be tested instead, I don't know this however so you should ask at a lab. But you are much better off getting him legally brought to the lab and witnessing him doing the test. I am sure his comment that he won't sign off on the birth certificate because the baby looked like you was simply a dodge. When you say "even child support cannot find him," do you mean he is hiding out? If so, why are you in so much communication with him that he has "made you" think something is wrong? Either he's totally unavailable to be summoned or he is around. Get moving on the legals, you should at the very least name him as the baby's dad. Talk to a lawyer or a helper at a legal-aid clinic.

[AnnieBrooke]

No, you would have had a ten-month pregnancy if you got pregnant in June and had a baby in April. Doctors don't let women go ten months.

[Citygirl24]

So With A Birth date of April 5th 2018 around when did I get pregnant ? I’m sorry I’m 18 & really confused

[Citygirl24]

Because I’m sure it was in July but I’m having second thoughts and thinking sex from June got me pregnant even though I had A Period Around June 29th

[AnnieBrooke]

Can you tell me why you are discounting the fact that you had a period in late June and why you believe you had a ten-month pregnancy? Are you feeling bad about the sex in June? A lot of the time, illogical fears about paternity come from something else, not from real worries about who the father is.

[Citygirl24]

Honestly I know for a fact that I had a period and stayed with one guy in July which is the conception month I get for every app or calculator and have been getting for over a year even the drs have told me I conceived in Mid July but dad denies the baby because he looks exactly like ME. It makes me think sex from June got me pregnant even after my cycle & even after giving birth on April 5th and conception still being mid June. Like sperm was like tucked away from June and implanted an egg in mid July around ovulation . Is that even possible ?

[Citygirl24]

Mid June* . Sorry . Conception calendars give me July 16th or so all the time . Sex From July 8th-17th & I was with ONE GUY THE WHOLE ENTIRE MONTH OF JULY. could I have gotten pregnant in August? No because my due date would have been May 7th and in June it would have been March 7th right?

[AnnieBrooke]

And, no, sperm cannot get tucked away from June to July and then produce a baby in mid July. Nice theory, I'll put it on the list with other magic-sperm posters who write about their mighty sperm that conquers time and space. Seriously, City, what are you letting this jerk dad do to your head? Call the lawyer, and go to a legitimate lab approved by the courts in your area of jurisdiction, and get the DNA test with this deadbeat. He has no right to deny the child is his just because he doesn't want to be a dad, and does not have the legal right to just shrug off the responsibility either.