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conception... who's the father please help!

My Lmp was July 17 2013 i slept with one of my children fathers on July 27th at about 3:30am we had oral sex and that's when the precome came we then started having sex before he ejaculated he pulled out and we were done i then had sex with my youngest kid dad on July 28, and July 31st i took a pregnancy test August 14th it was negative then again on the 16 it was POSITIVE! Went to the E.R the urine test was negative but the blood test was POSITIVE and was only at 53 someone please help who could be the father?
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Okay everyone i got an ultrasound today and it measured 5weeks 2 days they didn't see the fetal pole only the sac i go back in 2 weeks to get another one done... the ultrasound gave me a due date between April 30th and May 1st which is off from what i thought seeing that my LMP was July 17
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I would just be thankful ur bf still wants to be there most guys wouldnt handle that well at all. He a keeper
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Thanks everyone both of them know so the only thing i can do is WAIT and btw it was almost 48 hours apart the first guy was at 3:30 am on the 27th it was after we went to the club on his birthday July26 but technically it was the 27th ONLY because it was after 12am but the guy was on the 28th really really close to the 29th.... i know it probably could be either so I'm just preparing myself i have kids by both of them already so hey.. guess I'll just see what the doctor say
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The truth is, it doesn;t matter which way you paint it, or who you want the dad to be,    You slept with two guys, less than 24 hours apart.    As the girls have said, sperm can live in you for up to  a week, so by cheating on your fella with your ex means that, in all honesty, either male has the possibility of being the dad, and it can only be found out by having a DNA test.  

Precum can have sperm in it - in a recent study, 41% of males had sperm in their pre-***.    What they found was that the men who didn't have sperm in their pre-*** had NEVER had sperm in their pre-*** (authenticated by future research and studies using the same control group), but 41% did have sperm in their pre-*** and these men had ALWAYS produced sperm in their precum - this 41% of males CAN get you pregnant even if there is only pre-*** ejaculated before he pulls out.    This is why there are so many girls who get pregnant even when their partners use the "pull-out method", which isn;t reliable in the slightest.
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4835896 tn?1369369421
Precum can definitely get you pregnant .. it happened tome .. but if your youngest childchild's father actually came inside you I will say its him . .. but that is very close and I would get a DNA test to be 100% positive
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You normally ovulate about 2 weeks after your period, which would mean most likely it's your youngest dad.
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