conception... who's the father please help!

[Babeeeeee]

My Lmp was July 17 2013 i slept with one of my children fathers on July 27th at about 3:30am we had oral sex and that's when the precome came we then started having sex before he ejaculated he pulled out and we were done i then had sex with my youngest kid dad on July 28, and July 31st i took a pregnancy test August 14th it was negative then again on the 16 it was POSITIVE! Went to the E.R the urine test was negative but the blood test was POSITIVE and was only at 53 someone please help who could be the father?

[kristennicole612]

Theres no way for us to know really, sperm can live in your body for like 4-5 days, so its a good possibility it could be either. You will have to get a dna test done.

[KristiAnn2011]

Sounds like maybe the youngest kids dad......

[Babeeeeee]

The one i had sex with on the 27th he pulled out completely before he came but I'm still worried

[KristiAnn2011]

Oh wait. I thought that said the 17th. Ur screwed. Dna test. Sorry

[Babeeeeee]

That's what i was thinking but just a little confused

[KristiAnn2011]

Maybe it'll be twins and one by each lol :)

[jessdavid36220]

honestly that's not hard to tell if the first one came out negative. and the second one is positive it has to be ur youngest kids father of this one.

[Babeeeeee]

Lol that was funny

[Babeeeeee]

I really would love for it to be my youngest kid dad he helps out so much he just proposed and we are currently trying to work through our problems... the other guy pre came before we started actual sex and he pulled out i just need answers

[kristennicole612]

jessdavid36220...thats not true, at all. sperm can live in your body for 4-5 days, and when she took the first pregnancy test she couldve tested early, or not had enough hormons in her system. she had sex with 2 guys in 2 days. it could be either guy.

[jessdavid36220]

its highly unlikely for a guys precum to get a girl pregnant. so I'm pretty sure its the second one. goodluck :)

[DominiqueN573]

Precum doesn't only happen in the beginning it can actually happen all through out the act and pulling out doesn't work all the time.. it really could be either guy. You should tell them both and get a DNA test.

[Babeeeeee]

My ovulation day was also either the 31st or the 1st of August does that help?

[Babeeeeee]

I told them both i was pregnant but didn't tell my youngest kid father it could be someone else he HATES my other child father

[jessdavid36220]

its highly unlikely for precum to get a girl pregnant.. unless he dropped a full load in u ur good lol but to me it points to ur youngest kids father. good luck:)

[kristennicole612]

thank you Dominique. and like i said twice sperm can live in your body 4-5 days...so whether you ovulated the 31st or 1st either sperm couldve won the race to your egg. And its very very possoble to get pregnant from precum, and precum can happen all the way up until the cums.

[summergurley]

Its EXTREMELY likely that precum can get you pregnant.. how do you think all the people who thought the pull out method worked got pregnant?! 2 guys in 2 days is just too close to tell. You'll have to have a DNA test. And tell the youngest kids dad it nay not be his. That's not right or fair to him to not know the full story.

[baby2014]

DNA days are way too close. It doesn't matter If the other guy pulled out or not. I wish you luck and as someone posted above you need to let them both know that they may be competing for fatherhood against one another.

[Babeeeeee]

I told the first one the day i took the test and it was positive.. i just told my boyfriend he said that he still wanted to be with me.. i feel relieved for telling him but I'm still crying i just hope when i get my early ultra sound it tells me a little more

[jerica86]

I don't mean to burst your bubble or crush your hopes but even early ultrasound it can still be either since there is only minimal days between them

[summergurley]

There's only one day between..even an ultrasound is going to be no help to you.. the only thing you can do is have a DNA test when baby is born. Good luck though.

[EmmalynsMommy]

DNA test is the only way to know for sure. I'm sure the second guy will stay with you if he loves you, stick it out with him even when he gets upset, it's normal for him to react that way. Good luck honey, s@!t happens, you're a victim of crummy circumstance. But it'll work out

[hecker0873]

Yea it could be either one!! An dna test would prove it too! Also if the dads have different blood types can also tell too!!

[kes14]

You normally ovulate about 2 weeks after your period, which would mean most likely it's your youngest dad.