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So i had sex on march 27th which was my peak ovulation but we used the pull out method & he did not ejaculate inside of me. I then had sex with another man 4 days later. Im so confused on which could be the father & would like to hear other peoples opinions.
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Could go either way since the days were so close together. Only way to know would be a dna test. The pull out method is not an effective form of birth control because of pre ***. Many women have gotten pregnant using that method.
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When was your last period? Usually cycle length?
Earliest ultrasound given due date ?
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Did the second man use the pullout method too? Or did he finish?
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My last period was march 15th. The second man finished. My due date is december 26th
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My cycle length is pretty long. About a week or so
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134578 tn?1642048000
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Was the ultrasound that gave you the due date pretty late in the pregnancy?
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The ultrasound said december 18th. But that would mean i got pregnant on the 24th & i didnt have sex that week until the 27th.
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Im sorry I ment cycle length as in every 28 days you get your period or how long is your usually cycle length if you keep track.
My last period was march 13 i have a cycle length of 29-31 days they told me based on ultrasound  my ovualtion date was 29/30th of march with that due date given december 20 based of ultrasound .
How did you get the 27th as your peak ovulation?
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This is what I got if I input your due date into the conception calculator but this is only if due date is correct keep in mind ultrasounds can be off .

Due Date:

12/26/2015

Today's Date:

11/30/2015

36wks2d

Sex for getting pregnant:

From: 03/30/2015

To: 04/04/2015

Ovulation: OD

04/04/2015

2wks0d

Implantation:

04/13/2015

3wks2d

Expected Next Period:

04/18/2015

4wks0d

Fetal Heart Beat Seen:

05/05/2015

6wks3d

Nuchal Screen:

06/09/2015

11wks3d

2nd Trimester Begins:

06/23/2015

13wks3d

Quad Markers:

07/04/2015

15wks0d

Amniocentesis:

07/11/2015

16wks0d

Anatomic Ultrasound:

08/01/2015

19wks0d

Fetal Movements:

08/08/2015

20wks0d

Pregnancy Viable:

09/05/2015

24wks0d

Glucose Screen:

09/19/2015

26wks0d

3rd Trimester Begins:

09/25/2015

26wks6d

Daily Fetal Movements Count:

10/03/2015

28wks0d

Usual time to do fetal testing in HR patients:

10/31/2015

32wks0d

Term Pregnancy Begins:

12/05/2015

37wks

Elective Delivery after this Date:

12/19/2015

39wks0d

Due Date:

12/26/2015

40wks0d

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134578 tn?1642048000
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Honey, I was asking at what point in your pregnancy you got the ultrasound that said when you were due.  If your ultrasound wasn't early in the pregnancy, it can't totally be relied on to identify your due date (or your conception date), because as the pregnancy progresses, ultrasounds get less accurate for trying to tell when you conceived.  How far along in the pregnancy were you when you had an ultrasound that said you were due December 18?
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I had my first ultrasound may 5th.
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134578 tn?1642048000
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So, that was, what?  In your eighth week or so?  And it was the first one that gave you the due date of December 18?
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Im not sure. I was admitted into the ER & thats how i found out i was pg. The dr said placing date of conception on march 24th according to ultrasound but i didnt have sex then. It was 3 almost 4 days later & he pulled out. I then had sex 4 days after the 27th. Which lands on april 1st & he ejaculated inside .
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Honey, I can't help you if I can't tell from what you are saying just how early you got the information that you had a due date of December 18, and most especially, if that information came from an ultrasound.

If your info came from an ultrasound but the ultrasound was after your 12th week of pregnancy, it can't be used to pinpoint when conception was no matter what the doctor said about the date of conception.  If he said you conceived on a certain date because he was looking right at your 7th week ultrasound, then that's a useful estimate.  If he said it when he was holding your 19th-week ultrasound in his hand, it's not that useful of an estimate.  Some babies grow slower and some grow faster.  Only the earlier ultrasounds are useful for trying to determine when they began life.
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Im assuming i wouldve been between 6 & 8 weeks. He didnt tell me a precise week because i couldnt remember when my last period had began in march.
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The conception calculator I use suggests March 27 for the estimated date of conception if the due date given to you in a seventh-week ultrasound was December 18.  But with the dates of sex with the two guys only 4 days apart, if your ultrasound was later than your 8th week, the margin for error would soon expand to include both guys.  
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