Hi, did you get the 6 weeks 4 days count from an ultrasound?
Did you get the results yet, or are you still waiting? If the sex was all unprotected, sperm from either guy could have been in your reproductive tract on the day you ovulated. Your boyfriend from the 18, 19, 20 has the best chance but the other guy has a chance too.
The DDC has a good reputation. Do you think your drug-using ex will tell people that you did a test?
i was told from an ultrasound that i was 6 weeks and 4 days yes.. and i dont really care if he tells anyone.. hes got no friends that arent users..theyre more worried about their next high.. i didnt know how bad he was until after. i went back to my home town for my birthday with some old friends and he was there. he looked fine, probably my beer goggles and fed me a bunch of lies.. i know we had sex but i dont really remember most of it or anything about it. its terrible. my whole life ive always had a rule if i had sex with someone i had to wait until my period to have sex with another person if thats what i chose.. the one time i didnt... im pregnant. i get my results the 21st. im so nervous i havent really been able to eat or sleep in weeks...
I'm glad you chose the DDC. They and Ravgen have the best reputations.
well i will let you know tuesday if the results are how i want them to be.. lol
Hi, lym, did you hear with your results yet?
sure havent. they called last monday (i was supposed to get them tuesday) and said they had to rerun the test because they didnt get enough dna from the baby. they take 2 samples so they were going to use the second one i guess. i should find out tomorrow.. so they say!
Fingers crossed that you do hear tomorrow. :)
i really hope so i am soo stressed out. and i have no idea what i will do or say to anyone if my test comes back this guy i got tested is the father.....ughh i cant sleep!!!
no results today. i called because i had a bad feeling and theyre sending me tomorrow to get more blood drawn.. so another week or more wait.
so i started this blood draw on july 9th 2015. i finally got my results september 14th 2015. after getting my blood taken 5 seperate times (not enough blood, not enough dna, bad sample, not enough) and then being told the testing process was changed from 5 to 7 days to 15 to 20 days. i thought i would give birth before i got the results. but i finally did recieve them and they worked out in my favor (kind of, BD is still a douche bag) but unless youre in a situation like mine and you cant openly tell both of them and you need to know for the pregnancy, id get prenatal testing, otherwise i would wait until after birth. ddc was very rude, unreliable, and unprofessional.
Hi Lym1991.. I am in the same situation but even worse, I have 3 possibilities.. yikes this is a mess (although self inflicted) but I have done alot of research about the DDC & they seem quite reliable. My very trusted OBGYN doctor is actually the one that suggested them to me. I plan on getting mine done the week of October 14th... I spoke with a lady who is going to set up my case yesterday and she said the only time they have not gotten a result is when it has been inconclusive due to the women NOT being atleast 9 fetal weeks along. Please keep me posted on what happens. This is a very scary situation and I am right there with you
Hi, lym, well at least you have the answer. I'm sorry the BD is still a ********* (or perhaps a dildo would be a more accurate pejorative) and am sorry it took so long to get the answer. Will you be filing for child support from the BD?
funny the software would allow your "douche bag" and would not allow me to type the same thing. I ran them into one word, maybe it is on the alert for it as a single word and not for it as two separate. :) Wasn't this the guy who was excited to be the dad? Hmm! Shame on him for changing his tune!
Annie, I know you have already heard my story and Jpike31 I posted this on your thread as well. There is another thread where I give more detail and you can private message me as well. Jpike if your case worker is named Mary do not trust her. She has lied to me several times.
I know people have had great expirences with DDC non-invasive but what I am going through right now is a living hell. I did the test at a lab on 8/14 and the results came on 8/31. My partner wanted the test and I had only been with him in two years so I felt I had nothing to hide. It came back that he was not the father. On 8/31 I asked for the test to be reviewed and it is still under review to this day!!!! I cannot express the anguish they have put me through. I am not the only one this has happened too, go to the what to expect to expecting posts there are about ten others who have gotten incorrect results. All I am saying is be careful I would not wish anyone to go through what I am going through. They have lied to me and stonewalled me and now I have had to hire an attorney to fight for paternity and my integrity. I already have a high risk pregnancy and should have never gotten pregnant in the first place. I am going to have to get a court ordered test after the baby is born, I am due 1/4. And now after this incorrect test everyone hates each other and non of us trust each other. And honestly who is going to suffer, my son. My innocent son who has done nothing wrong.
You don't have to believe me and that's the worst part, telling people this story and people giving me that look. That look that says they don't believe me and that I am lying and I must have slept with someone else. That is so hard to swallow. I had to submit a signed paper showing all the dates I had sex dating back to June 2014 to my lawyer. It is so degrading and humiliating. My lawyer looked at the paper and saw only one name next to all the dates. There just was no one else.
DNA has become the standard for testing and it is so hard to stand tall and say that test is wrong. I never want any other mother to go through what I am going through! No pregnant woman should be under this kind of stress.
Sorry for the rant, I am just really hurting. This test was supposed to do for me what it did for the other woman who posted in here but it did the total opposite. It has caused me anguish beyond compare.
My son was told he was the baby daddy. We used ddc for the prenatal paternity dna test. The result was 0 probability he was the dad. After the child was born, another dna test was done with a different lab. These results were 0 probability again. Ddc was correct, I recommend them to anyone wanting the prenatal paternity dna test.
thank you I got the exclusion I was hoping for and im praying that it was correct
How much do they charge you sorry for budging in I wanna get one taken and how do we do it order online or any phone number please
You have to call them. It's $1625 and they can do payment plans as well. I think it's 799 down and 295 per month.
Hi lym1991. Were your results correct? Thanks