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who can be the father

I slept with this guy april 1st then I got my period april 13th but it was light so I slept with him that day then it came heavy I stopped talking to him cause he started stalking me then april 23-26 I slept with my current boyfriend and may 6th I found out I was expecting with a 6 day response pregnancy test then may 11th I had an appointment and they confirmed I was pregnant as well then for my screening date my lmp was april 20 I guess the last day of my period and my fertile days were april 25,2018 to april 29th,2018 who can be the father to my baby
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The way I read your post, your last period was April 14th-20th. That would make likely ovulation April 28th (on a 28 day cycle) with the boyfriend's sperm still live and kicking inside you. Sex on the day before your period begins will not get you pregnant.
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134578 tn?1693250592
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It sounds like the ultrasound was in your 20th or 21st week? So far along in pregnancy, ultrasounds don't always match when your last period was.

If the last time you slept with the other guy was the first day of your period, it doesn't sound like you need to worry about the length of time sperm stays alive in the woman's body; it would not have stayed alive long enough to be still there when you ovulated if most of your period came after you had sex.

I don't think there is anything wrong with doing a DNA test, either. It will show your boyfriend as the dad, from everything you have said here.
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Thank you. For giving me some peace I needed it. But I also slept with him April 13th but my period was light then it came back heavy after that and that’s when I stopped talking to him because he proved he was crazy and a stalker
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It was done September 5th,... and it makes me wonder cause I heard that semen stays alive for 5 days but then again thinking about it you may be right too which I was thinking the same but since this guy is stalking and continues to bother me I wanna know if I’ll be wrong for doing a dna test
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134578 tn?1693250592
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Also, when you say "then for my screening date," do you mean, when you got an ultrasound at some point? And by using the word "screening," do you mean one that is rather late, like an 18th-week ultrasound? When was the ultrasound (date on the calendar)? I ask because you sound like you think the ultrasound was using the last day of your period to determine things. But it won't do that. If the ultrasound was after your 12th week, it isn't unusual for there to be a discrepancy between dates according to the ultrasound, and the weeks according to a woman's last period. Babies can grow faster or slower than average, and by the time a woman is full term, the dates an ultrasound gives from the baby's measurements can be a full three weeks off what they are according to her last period.
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It was done September 5th
134578 tn?1693250592
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It sounds like your current boyfriend. What makes you wonder?
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