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Ok I had sex with guy I been having sex with for 3 months unprotected and each month I got my period but in May 2018 I had sex with him again 2 day before my fertile window and the guy I’m with now a day before my fertile window! And now I’m pregnant! I’m really unsure because I never got pregnant with this guy I was having sex with for 3 months and this guy I’m with now I just started and I’m pregnant? I need clear answer because I don’t of the new guy or the old one! Please help
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Is that the only clue you have at this point, that you had sex after your April period with two guys one day apart, and then in May you realized you were pregnant? Could you give some dates? First day of last period, usual length of menstrual months (how often the next period usually comes), whether or not this is a regular number of days or your period comes irregularly month by month, when in the month since your last period came you had sex with guy 1, and then when you had sex with guy 2? I'm trying to work out if you might have gotten pregnant earlier than in the time period with both guys.
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Ok period was April 27! on May 8,9,13, I had sex with the new guy! The one I had sex unprotected was may 12 and the 13, and a day after my period end which was the 3rd of May!!
My period is irregular it can be 30 days or 31 days it varies
The guy#1 May 12-13
So you were expecting your next period around May 27? It kind of sound like the only way you are going to be able to sort this out is by a DNA test. From what you are saying, you probably got pregnant on the 13th, which means you had sex with the new guy and the old guy on the very day when you would have been ovulating. There is no way to sort that without a DNA test.
You can get a DNA test before the baby comes, but it costs a lot of money. If you do, test with BOTH GUYS and go only to one of the top labs, Ravgen or the DDC. If you wait, you can test for about a tenth of the cost after the baby comes. And again, test with both guys. One will get a positive and the other will get a negative, and they will confirm each other's results. Test at a legitimate lab (no drugstore tests); call the family courts in your area of jurisdiction to find out what labs are acceptable to them for purposes of legally determining paternity.
You can get a DNA test before the baby comes, but it costs a lot of money. If you do, test with BOTH GUYS and go only to one of the top labs, Ravgen or the DDC. If you wait, you can test for about a tenth of the cost after the baby comes. And again, test with both guys. One will get a positive and the other will get a negative, and they will confirm each other's results. Test at a legitimate lab (no drugstore tests); call the family courts in your area of jurisdiction to find out what labs are acceptable to them for purposes of legally determining paternity.
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