Well I made the appt with the OB who delivered my daughter and they said since its been a year they need the refferal. Also they said if I had another kind of insurance they wouldnt need it. I made an appt with my Primary dr whom Ive never seen and I cant see them until the 1st but my OB appt. is the 25th soooo if you can read my other post about going to the ER bc I am honestly scared bc Ive got somethin else goin on and I need to know but PLEASE tell me what you think of it.
Honestly Im going to go to the ER tomorrow bc a friend of mine said to tell them im having some pelvic pain and one of the first things they would do is give me a PT and its coming back positive and then she said more than likely they will give me an ultrasound.
On the other hand Im very worried bc I have HepC and I think if I go in and say look I took a PT its (t) and Im concerned bc Ive got HepC and I also need to see about how far I am bc I dont know the risk of having that disease (and ofcourse my childs going to be born with it) and passing it to my child, but just let them know I cant see an OB for a month and if I haveto make a decison on wheter or not to terminate I want to make sure that it wont be to late. I dont know I feel like such an idiot and I would have never thought I wouldve been in a perdicamit like this I feel so irresponsibale and like I wasnt even thinking of my daughter or the outcome,ya know? I just haveto figure this out tomorrow but just need a little input on what to say @ the ER bc Im deff. going I just dont know which to say bc either one can make them do something different.
I think Im just going to tell them Im having pelvic pain and Ive made an appt with my OB but cant see them until the 1st and I couldnt wait. Also inform them that Im very scared bc I have HepC and Im late, so I do have a fear that I may be pregnant and if I am pregnant I need to know about how far I am bc if I haveto make a decison on what the best thing to do is I dont want it to be to late.
Ive never thought about having an abortion but Ive got all these factors playing a role in an unborn childs life and my mind wont stop thinking and I cant sleep, I think Ive gotten 4 or 5 hrs of sleep in the past 2 days bc Im researching online and Im thinking which guy it is and I just feel so discombabulated; I wouldnt wish this on anyone.
PLEASE let me know which one of these you think I should to tell the ER I would greatly appreciate it
Ive already enetered the dates on the calendar and GUY1 says im 10weeks; which I really dont think Im that far bc when I found out I was pregnant with my daughter I remember I took my PT and it took about a month to see the OB and they said I was 8 weeks and 4 days so when I took it I was like 4-5weeks. GUY2 says Im 6-7 weeks, GUY3 im 5 weeks. Ive had no sickness the ONLY signs I have are my boobs hurt and Im having alot of discharge;odd?? Dont remember having that with my daughter but honestly every pregnancy is different.
As ftm says, you need to get an ultrasound. Especially since you are wondering if you will have to 'do something,' the sooner the better. Tell them the truth, that you don't know when your first day of your last period was, and that one of the reasons you need an ultrasound is to assess the date when you might have conceived. They should give you an estimated due date based only on the size and developmental markers of the embryo. Then you can go home and plug that date into an online conception calculator, or just count back 266 days on a calendar to get to an estimated conception date. If you really had a period in early May, your best possibility is the event on the 17th, but if you aren't sure of whether that early-May period date is correct, you can't put too much faith in counting forward from it. This is why you need an ultrasound, and do whatever you can to get it now, given the consequences you are looking at. Pay cash, find another doctor, etc.
You don't need a referral to see a obygn they told me the same and it was bs you just call a obygn that takes your insurance and you set a appointment with them. But don't panic you'll find out soon. :)
^^ sorry just realized u said u already got a positive (its early :-)) so start with going to planned parenthood for a ultrasound.
I think your panicking. Take a deep breath. Go get a hpt and find out if your even pregnant. Then go to planned parenthood and get.a ultrasound to see how far along u are if the hpt is positive. Then use tge contraception calculator to find out which guy it is. Best wishes
Work out your ovulation days from your last period and see if one of the men whom you slept with fell in within the weeks that you had intercourse.
I would say guy 2 because you slept with guy1 and then got your period beginning of may. Guy 2 looks like you would be close to ovulating days If you had your period beginning of may.
Pregnancy Date=Sonogram
Paternity=DNA test
Well you need to find how far along in your pregnancy you are first then you can use the "conception date calculators" they give you dates of the sex that got you pregnant. Usually your conception date is the date you ovulated and they arent accurate but if u find the conception date calculator it gives u the date u had sex on to concieve baby and one of the dates mightcome up of 3 . X
We can't tell you. 3 men is really hard to tell. You have to get a dna test. Sorry but we can'thelp you. Good luck.
Find out how far along u are first
Dang. Uhmm you need to just wait and take a DNA test that's the best advice I personally have for you.