confused please Help

[LiLBeto]

Ok I'm soo lost with all these dates so here's my question.. I had my period in may, none I don't believe in June. I had sex on may 23rd,  then so on and so on, My Due date is March, 12, 2014. My doctor said I got pregnant in june. Is that true? When did I get pregnant. Sorry can't remember lmp date..

[ItsJai19]

And also if you count from June to March, you come up with 10. Meaning that you did get pregnant in June sometime. If you got pregnant in May your due date would be sometime in February.

[ItsJai19]

I am in the same boat. It is guilt driven. I clearly got pregnant in June and I'm due in March also on the 3rd. I had sex with Mr. Wrong on May 16th and  I conceived around June 10th. Thank God he's NOT the father.  I have had all of the reassurance that I need, and sometimes I too find myself being a "Google freak" looking at the same conception calculator over and over wondering if I could have some how been pregnant during my last period. All of my dates match up perfectly including my period & due date. Try not to worry, enjoy your pregnancy, and sort whatever guilt you have out with yourself after the baby is born. I KNOW its HARD. Sometimes we just have a hard time accepting that things can still go right after we do something horrible or against our morals. You'll be fine. Good luck!

[emilija55]

My situation is very similar.
2 doctors said me that  100 %  I am not pregnant from my ex, but I am still worry.
We are worry because we feel guilty - this is how explain for me doctor.

[AnnieBrooke]

You ask "so why am I still trippen;" if you are like a lot of women who write in on this forum who are still worried even if their dates clearly indicate one person and not another, you're probably still trippen because you feel wrong or guilty about what happened, and it's easier to obsess about the due date than it is to obsess about what it might mean that you had sex with two different guys in a short time.  I can't really help you with that very much, your dates are clear and that is pretty much all I've got for you.  I will say from experience with similar posters, if this gets obsessive for you, talk to a counselor, and begin with the fact that you had sex with your ex, and talk about what that might mean.  Probably you'll stop obsessing over the dates when you iron that out.

[LiLBeto]

So why am I still trippen, I even asked my doc. Same thing you said but I find myself being a Google freak tryna figure it all out.  So your saying that since my dd has been the same since 6w6d on 7/23/13 I could not have gotten pregnant by having sex on may 23.? I don't think I got a period in June either just One beginning/middle of may,  i'm soo confused sorry if I'm bothering anyone but its steadily on my mind..

[AnnieBrooke]

Due dates can change during pregnancy; babies grow faster or slower than the norm, or the doctor measures the woman and changes his mind about when she is due.  This does not mean that she conceived at a different time.

[LiLBeto]

But I'm curious, How is it that some woman have the same due date but different conception dates, some are same but others are even round June 5th.. hmm

[AnnieBrooke]

OK.  You're in good shape, having gotten a due date from an early ultrasound.  The short answer is, don't worry about the sex on the 23rd of May.  If the doctor gave you a due date of March 12 when you were as early in your pregnancy as 6 weeks 6 days, it will be very close to spot on, and there is no way you got pregnant from the sex in May.  Here is what the conception calculator says for a due date of March 12.

     Probable date of ovulation:  June 19
     Possible dates of conception:  June 15 to 23
     Due date:  March 12, 2014 (40 weeks)

If you want to count it out yourself, count back 266 days on a calendar from the estimated due date.  

[LiLBeto]

I had a ultrasound on,  07,23, 2013, it said I was 6 weeks and 6 days and that's when my due date was march, 12, 2014 and still is the same.. I'm soo sorry and what I meant was I had sex with an ex on the may, 23rd only once, then after that continued on with my bf from there on. I asked my on and he said I got pregnant round. June, 14-19 I'm just a lil curious, Thanks for listening :)

[AnnieBrooke]

Also, what does "I had sex on May 23rd, then so on and so on," mean?  You kept having sex in later May and in June?  Or you didn't have sex after May 23?

[AnnieBrooke]

At what point in your pregnancy did the doctor give you a due date, and was it from looking at an ultrasound?