Who's the Father of my baby?

[Addison_Rae]

Okay, before you go handing judgment.. I just need a little advice.

My Boyfriend & I have been together almost 7 years. As it always goes, we had some issues and went separate ways. On the 15th on November, thanks to WAY to much alcohol.. I had a "one night stand". My ex and myself slow started hanging out, and ended up working on things.. needless to say, on the 24th of November we had unprotected "Make-Up Sex". Come the 16th of December, I took a pregnancy test, and HELLO! POSITIVE Test. We made an appointment, and on the 20th of December we had our first Vaginal Ultrasound, my doctor stated I was 4 weeks pregnant. There wasn't any visual sign of a yolk sac, and according to Google, that develops in the 5th week of pregnancy.

As my guilty conscience got the best of me, I told my boyfriend everything that happened (about the one night stand) I told him that the dates technically don't match up, for the one night stand to be the father. And that I am almost POSITIVE we conceived this baby on the 24th of November.

I've done 100 tests online, and most conception dates come out to be the 25th of when we conceived.

-So in reality... there was a 9 day gap in-between the two men.
-My last period was November 11th
-December 20th my Doctor said I was 4 weeks pregnant. (and no yolk sac had developed.

Someone, PLEASE help me. I know that it is SO horrible to continuously worry, and stress this early in pregnancy.. but my mind is in OVERDRIVE. I can't help but to question this.


Thanks so much for anyones help!

[Galvez]

Yea but like u said it's not fair for him to get attached to the baby n it not being his. just be patient till baby is born to get a DNA test, at least ure bf knows already that there's a possibility that it's not his  n well he can choose to be there thru it n wen it comes time he can choose to stay with u if it's not his kid cz there are guys that are willing to step up like that. Best of luck to yall

[asmith21488]

Accumetric does one for 800...its reliable. I know more than one person who has used them.

[Addison_Rae]

That is after the baby is born.

I was looking for prenatal DNA testing.

My Boyfriend is scared to get attached to the baby, and the baby end up NOT being his.. it would break his heart. Even though we aren't married... he has wanted children for many years..

[Addison_Rae]

Sorry, that was a typo.. tomorrow (1-3-14) according to my doctors first ultra sound I should be at 6 weeks.

My first ultrasound the baby measured at 3.2mm, with no visible yolk sac.

[AaronsWifey18]

You can get a dna test from Walgreens or CVS for $30 then you send in another $130. It's a mouth swab test.

[Addison_Rae]

No, he did not give me a due date. He actually told me I was one of first patients he's had in a long time that's found out they were expecting this early on.

I have looked into many DNA testing sites, and I would only consider non-invasive testing (blood testing) for DNA, and that's close too $2,000.00. The amount of money I cant afford to shell out, with a baby on the way. Not too mention, so many negative reviews on DNA testing. That they can be scams, or invalid testing.

And that's where confusion steps in. From my LMP, I am 7 wks 3 days, which would be 5 weeks, 3 days. But tomorrow I am supposed to be at 3 weeks, unless the US can be that far off??

Pregnancy is so confusing!

[Galvez]

Dna test is ure true answer

[thirdandlastbaby]

Typically if they date you they date you by pregnancy length not GA. Did they give you a due date yet? If they did then go by that, that will then give you how far along you are and conception date etc. To be absolutely sure you can always do a DNA test.

From your LMP I have your due date of august 18th and you are currently 7 weeks 3 days with conception date of November 25th

[Bree61714]

You concieved with your bf.

[Addison_Rae]

You don't think he technically meant I was 6 weeks, and the G.A was 4 weeks? I return back to the doctor on the 17th of January to hear the heartbeat for the first time. Which would make it my 8 week check?? Is that too early to hear a heartbeat?

I've just over stressed myself over this entire situation. I guess I should really just consult with my doctor, but waiting another 2 weeks has me going CRAZY!!

Whenever I complete the conception tests online, they say I was most likely to conceive on the 25th, how does that make me 4 weeks? Or even 2 weeks? My periods are VERY irregular!

Thanks for the help.

[thirdandlastbaby]

Well if you were 4 weeks pregnant then actually you only count back 2 weeks and that would be your conception date. They say 4 weeks because they account the two weeks after your supposed period.

So according to all of that you conceived with your boyfriend.