I am post menopausal and still missing my Mom three years after her death. I'm starting to become afraid of the hatred I feel for my husband. He's a really nice guy, retired. I work full time and have an hour commute to and from work. I have to work, as his retirement isn't enough to pay the mortgage and the bills. On weekends, he just lays around and does nothing. Weekdays, I have to get up at 3 a.m. to clean up, feed pets and get going. By the time I get home, at about 4:45, I have to feed pets, get dinner ready and get my clothes ready for the next day. The only thing he does is to turn on the dishwasher, and he often forgets to do that. I'm so burned out between my job and home that I wish I could run away. I'm sad all the time, and the only friends and relatives I have are always hitting me up for money or favors. It's the same thing at work. I get stuck with all the BS stuff, and can't seem to say no. My Mom was the same way, but she worked for relatives, and took off time when she needed to. Also, she only worked 10 minutes from home. I've never struck anyone in my life, but I just wanted to slap my husband yesterday. What can I do? I'm only 55 and feel like 105.