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1649932 tn?1348082640

is anybody going threw what im going threw right now

Hi everybody for the past couple days i havent been feeling like myself . Im feeling so lonely sad in depressed right now cause nothings working out for me in i dont have anybody to talk to . Im struggling trying to get a job trying to stay positive but its not working in i just dont know what  to do anymore. I dont have a men they dont seem to be interested in me cause im ugly in im not just saying that. I dont have friends i have family members but when i come around they act funny like they want me  to leave there house.  I do go out in try to meet new people in there just not interested in me in i dont know why cause im a good person.In as i sit here telling you all this im just crying so bad i just want a good life like everybody else  in yes i do see a therapist in i dont take meds but any advice will be great thank you.
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1754670 tn?1312378295
I want to be ur friend, have gon thru wat u ve been thru and have just picked myself up and feeling beter abt myself, but sometimes i battle coz i feel sad and alone but God loves me and there is a reason why we were created, u cld have died in a miscarriage but no, we were born which means we have a greater purpose. you have no idea how long i wanted to be a size 12, i felt fat and ugly and so sad, men dint want me, i still dont have a job and my cousins used to forget abt me wen planning parties but only because i used to be a party spoiler coz i wld sit back and be sad and everyone wouldnt knw how to get me to smile and they got tired of trying. I started listening to Joyce Meyer and my life has changed, am still a size 16 but full of confidence, my confidence n happiness attracts pipo to me, now days i turn men down, tru am in love with my bestfriend and that gets me down sometimes but i have so much to live for....My family like me beta now, they invite me to everyth am the life of the party, i had no surgery but i feel like the most beautiful person in the world, True i still dont have a job but am sure will get one soon and before i do am enjoying everyday as it comes, why worry abt tomoro wen its not even promised to any one. U think people are not interested in u but i am, add me and we shall take this day at a time. Stop crying and start smiling once in a while. the one who created you loves u. And so does ur family, mayb ur just too sad to notice it. i have been thru where you are and am not perfect yet but am in a pretty gd place rite now.
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i feel the same way. im a 13 year old teen idk why but i was rejected all my life. your not the only one feeling lonly. i know im a stranger but i hope u know that your not lonly and i support u.
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1649932 tn?1348082640
thank you
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1438412 tn?1315507919
I know how you feel we've all been there. Just try to remember it will pass and you will have better days. I know a lot of people who manages without drugs. But depression can be a  physical problem. At first my depression was contributed to my thyroid and there chemical problems in the brain. Differant people have different ideas and that's great because if we were all alike we wouldnt need to share.  Personally if it wasnt for anti depressions I have no doubt I wouldn't be alive today. Everybody has to find what works for them. Best of luck and remember there are alot of people here who care very much. Love Gail
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1649932 tn?1348082640
thank you so very much for your advice this is the best advice ive gotten sense i been on medhelp in im glad i found someone that can relates to me in what im going through thank you.
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Keep your mind busy and do the things that you like doing and that make you happy,don,t worry to much about other people and what they think, at the end of the day you are the one that counts and the most important person is you.Keeping the mind busy keeps depression away.All the best.
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